My mom abuses me and i do not want to do ?
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You need to tell a teacher you trust or the school nurse.
This is important.
I'm so sorry she does that to you. If she ever leaves bruises on you guys there is your proof. You need to call someone to help they will invegate or tell your teacher that way the teacher could say she told and not you that way maybe she won't take it out on you. But either way you need to get help!
aww :(
Do you have a family member who is close to your mother, but who you know you can trust in? Maybe if you speak to them they can ask your mum why she does this. Maybe she doesn't even realise she's being so nasty. I have been there too and I know it makes you feel really unloved, but trust me you wil get through this. Maybe you could ask her why she hurts you, tell her it makes you sad and you want her to stop.
Good luck!
Tell a teacher. Or a clergy member. Or a police officer..Or your doctor...They are bound by law to report to health and human services and then health and human services needs to investigate within 24 hours of the call. They may be able to get your mom help so that when hse gets angry ahe has other ways to cope and thenyour hwole family life will improve.
Being hit will affect how you view relationships for the rest of your life. Do not allow one more day to go on before telling. Now is the time to be brave...And you need only be brave once and then let the authorities take over.
you really need to tell someone. A school official, or if you can go to a church, or if your really desperate call the cops. This is a difficult situation, and I'm really sorry that you have to deal with this. But the best advice is don't just not do something you got to act now before something really bad happens.
If you think that no one will believe you then try and get evidence like pics of any bruises or try and catch her on a video camera. If not then just go to the police because since there is more than one of you being abused then the police will believe you!
it's good that you know what she's doing is wrong. tell your school counselor and/ or principal...if that does not make things better, or if it gets worse call child protective services...your family will probably need to get some counseling, but it will help you all in the long run. also, it's good to take care of these unhealthy problems, to make things better..but just remember: you are the kid here, and your mom is the adult.
it also sounds like stress might be premeditating this.have you honestly told your mom (in a kind and respectful way) how her behavior is making you feel?
you got to have communication to work things out you know.
Honey you have to tell someone. You can call 241-kids(5437) and they will help you. Or, go to a teacher, a friend's parent, or even a neighbor. A policeman, or someone at a firehouse. Someone you can trust. Make sure you make it clear that all three of you need to get out before she's approached so she doesn't take it out on you. You can't grow up like this. I know it's scary, but you'll be so happy you did it in the long run. You deserve to be happy, not beaten.
Hope this helps!
Call the child welfare authorities, to protect the others, and yourself: she needs to address this problem, NOW! View anger management, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... on page 4: print, and put in the mail for her. Also see http://www.verbalabuse.com/indexmain.sht... (shtml)
I'm so sorry for you! :( You need to tell a teacher or a friends mom, Grandma or any trusted adult right away. This is a very serious thing and they will believe you, trust me on this. Tell someone ASAP. Good luck and stay safe!
Your Mom needs some help with overloaded stress. Is there someone (Grandmother, Aunt/Uncle, older friend) that you can talk to? Your Dad?
You can call Child Protection Service, but keep in mind that they will remove you and your brothers from your home.
In the meantime, try cleaning the kitchen before she come homes from work, wash some clothes, find something that will quiet the boys when she first gets home, or TV/music turn down low/off.
Having it calm, quiet, and clean looking when your Mom comes home from work will help a lot in her unwinding from the day which improves her mood.
My Dad would have a cup of coffee (15 minutes time) and we knew that it made a big difference in our whole evening by just waiting till he was done before asking for anything.
If your Mom gets worst, you will need to talk to someone before she hurts one of you without meaning to. OK?
you have to tell a teacher or something.and teachers can't just ignore you because the will be fired if they do.
My mom does that to me too. I'm 14 and she works at the hospital too! I don't understand why some Mom's are so great and I got her for my mom. If you want to talk, e-mail me.
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