I have alot of problems? i dont know what to do?
Question:
i was cutting
i have an eating disorder
i wanted to kill myself
i dont get it i was raped then i thought i was pregnant but it turns out im not yeah well i dont know what to do im really scared i have nightmares too and i dont wanna talk to my parents cuz i dont want them to get stressed out over all the what should i do please help i dont wanna feel like this anymore
Answers:
you know my home number hunny, talk to me. how can i be a GREAT bf if you dont let me help you? you know i can always seem to make you smile, and blush, let me help, i cant help if you dont ask for help.
all you gotta do is say "hunny, i feel sad" and you know i'll try my best to cheer you up no matter what, ok?
woah! hey hun calm down first and take a deep breath.
do your parents know you got raped? if not they MUST know, so they can help you and keep you safe from that person if that person is still around. soz are you getting councelling? i can't remember! if not, i think this would be a good idea - as you said you have a lot of problems on your mind, and it's making your life hell, so it needs to be sorted out, plus you would be able to talk and let all your worries out, to someone who can professionally help you. and try to put the cutting and suicidality behind you - they're in the past now due to your strength (well done!) so try to stop worrying about them - the more you dwell on them, the more likely you are to go back to them, which you know you don't want. can't you talk to your new bf? i'm sure he'd be glad to help you. and don't forget i'm here to talk to as well.
Please talk to someone, preferably a professional (wow that's a mouthful!)
Stay strong, stay safe.
It's sounds like you need some serious help. I have been there before with the whole cutting thing and having feelings of wanting to hurt myself.
Please talk to your parents. That is what they are there for. They worry about you anyway whether you tell them whats wrong or not. You might as well tell them so you can get the help you need. I am telling you, in the end you will be happy you told them, even if it doesn't seem like a good idea now :)
Hun, although it'll stress you out talking to your parents you need to talk to them or some kind of adult about everything going on with you... I know it'd be hard telling your parents everything you're going through but in the end you'll get some help that you need. I really believe you should see a counselor so you'd have someone you can talk to and get some help for the problems you're dealing with. I'm really glad that you don't feel like ending it anymore and good luck with quitting cutting! It is a really bad happen and you need to stop, as you already know, since you're cutting down on it. Also, eating disorders are no games. If you didn't already know you can mess up your body and even die from that.. Please speak to someone you can trust, someone older, so they can help you get the help you need.
Take care and get better!
-Kari
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