Which would you rather do?


Question:
A) Stay with your family that verbally abuses you and sometimes physically abuses you, stay so you can stay in school to become a medical assistant until the program is over in 2 years because you can't drive yet, nor do you have a job, so your recieving assistance through a county but if you switch to the county where your goin' to school, they won't give you as much for your schooling and you'll be in debt, all this because ou have an anger problem and your trying to get help for it, but the nviroment that your in won't let you change, even though your goin' through counseling

or

B) Get the h*ll out, worry about the price of school later, get school finished, finish counseling, worry about health insurance and that stuff later, work, and just move on with your life.

Please answer logically and oh, before anyone asks, I am of age and so is my boyfriend. I'm 20 and he's 30.

So, logical advice would be appreciated and no smart comments, please.

Answers:
This sort of situation actually just happened to me, no joke. My parents cut off all money (rent, tuition, groceries occasionally, some of my car insurance, some clothes, etc.) and stopped talking to me. So, I went for option B. I am living with my friend and working two jobs full time to pay for everything. I think it's better just to get out and worry about costs, etc. later. Do what's best for you now: getting out and living the real life on your own (or with your boyfriend). Once you have a real job you can pay back loans. Salliemae.com is great for student loans and financial aid. Good luck! You can get through this just fine. =)
I personally think you should put your health first. That is the most important thing.So B. I believe you should leave, the longer you stay in that environment, who knows what emotional damage could be created for you. I hope you pick the right answer thats in your heart
i say get out that environment is just making everything worse and will continue to until you get out of it and work out everything out for yourself.
Option B. Even though you'll have more financial worries in the long run, you will be out of the abuse which will be SOOOOOOO much better for you. Please, just get away from the abuse. Worry about eveything else later, just take care of yourself now.
i would say b but thats easer said than done
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