I need to talk to someone who is dealing/dealt with what I am now dealing with?
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I hun, I havent been through this, but my neice has. She just turned 16. She just got out of it. She had to go to counseling. The counsler tried to blame her parents. Come to find out she was trying to cope with her school life also.You have all of the same problems my neice is having, but now instead of cutting herself or bitting herself,she has a box to take anger out on. If you have a pet, get close to him! That makes a hole lot of differance. You can tell your pet anything and you know it wont go any farther than that., but you realy need to tell your parents because that is a real problem teens have. You are not the only one that is going through this, and you need to rember that!!! It is very common.If you can not talk to your parents, go to your school and they will help you. They helped my neice with her problem, and yes she is also bi.
Take care and good luck hun .
Karen
I think you should take your e-mail address off. You are going through some serious things and you need to see a doctor or talk to a trusted adult.
just stop
i'm so sorry to hear all this but even though i would love to help u i can't because i don't know what to tell u!
don't put your e-mail addresses in public. You'll get more than you want.
You need some professional help and you can't get that here...please see a Dr or get your parents to take you to one...you can get some help and some meds...
you can also phone for some help...look in your local phone book for mental/gay/lesbian help...it's free..
Go get help today.
You will be better off getting therapy and helpful meds. I am glad for you that your friend hung in so long, so now it is time for you to take responsibility for yourself.
It's going to be hard to stop and you need to set yourself up with a support system. Sometimes it is also difficult to get the right people the first time through. Keep at it. Try to remember that your scars will be souvenirs of bad times - and no one likes reminders like that.
There is no easy way out of this..but you do need to speak with a doctor. If you don't want your parents to find out, just ask the doc not to share this with your parents. But you do need professional help. Ask your best friend to accompany you to the doc if you need moral support, asking for help with something like what you are going through is hard to do. You may also be asked to see a therapist, and there is nothing wrong with that, they can help you out alot, even just by listening. It isn't an easy thing that you are going through, but you can get through it!! Good Luck and hugs.
Hi Nikki. I sent you an e-mail.
Best wishes.
I knew a girl who was a cutter. Your not alone. She was sad. No one nor her self made her feel good. Her mother was mean to her at times. She withdrew from social activities. She gained a few extra pounds. She wished she were dead.
She moved in with her Grandmother. She graduated the following year. Had a job, good boyfriend, lots of friends and she was involved in many things, such as she is about to get her pilots license. She is happy. And you will be too.
My point here is things WILL change. They just do. You will write many chapters in your life, Some good some bad. This is just one of them. I promise.
Talk to your school counselor or A trusted adult that you can confide in. You need to.
Peace be with you.
take of ur email 4 real cuz my friend Cassie got nasty and rude emails 4 real talk to ur friend that stayed with u and i talked to her or just email me or im me when am on iam going throw the same remember
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