My sister is such a loser she has NO friends and she pretends to be sick and depressed for attention?


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and she will lie about having something wrong so she can get surgery so she can tell everyone to get attention what a loser no she takes anti deppresants so she can tell every body, and she goes on the phone and says shes going to kill her self for attention!!

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My dad didn't notice I was depressed until I hit crisis point. Have you considered that she may be twelling the truth, sounds like she is very alone at the moment and mat well feel as isolated as you make out she is. Talk to her and ask about her problems and issues. If you think she is just attention seeking, she obviously needs help and get her to counselling or to a psychiatrist which will be able to help with why she is seeking attention or the depression.

By the way many people with depression hide it from others, and put on a happy normal face.
Well, you certainly aren't helping by calling her a loser.
i know somebody a little bit like this, whenever we play outside she pretends to hurt herself, and runs home crying.
u should make sure that she doesn't feel excluded or inferior espescially around younger people
I think your sister is definitely hurting if she is crying out for attention so much..and calling her a loser definitely does not help..and in fact..It kind of makes sense that your sis is acting out in such a way..as it doesn't seem like she is in a very supportive environment.
Maybe she wants to see who really cares about her? I don't know..either way..stop being mean to her.
Wow, try talking to her. Maybe she feels like shes alone and that's why she pretends to be depressed. Taking anti-depressions for no reason isn't good. Some are addictive, and others can kill. Ask how shes feeling, listen closely to see why shes pretending to be depressed for attention. And don't let her keep taking the med.
Good luck.
omg u are the loser and i dont like to label ppl but i bet 900$u are a freaking prep that u worry because u broke a nail and u think its the end of the world because ur bf broke up with u and just get a life and leave hers alone i dont know her but i bet shes better than u
Sounds like she REALLY DOES NEED HELP!!!
How would you feel if she DID "kill herself" after you 'ignored' her.??
People DON'T usually joke about things like that!! She IS OBVIOUSLY VERY DEPRESSED!!!
I KNOW it's hard for the people "around" someone who has "Mental Issues" -but SHE'S your SISTER! DON'T ABANDON her! DON'T "trash-talk" her! SHE'S SICK!!
"Depression" is SERIOUS -and it usually "runs in families" -YOUR turn may come.!! Wouldn't YOU want your family to HELP you?!?!?
Here's a website that may give you a clearer understanding of how your sister is feeling.
www.healthyplace.com/communiti...
P.S. -I seriously doubt your sister is a "Loser", though someone who would dismiss anothers' "feelings"(especially a FAMILY MEMBER), may be 'bordering on' being a "Loser" them self.) ;)

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wow, were you thinking when you were writing, you sound like an *** right now judging your sister and saying shes a loser. Your obviously as bad as she is for even caring about that and analyzing her so deeply. Your pathetic, Its called freakin life, and many different people. ******* deal with it you baby.
Craving attention is not necassarily something to be ashamed of. People who crave attention often have burried reasons for this, and the fact she makes a big deal of it may be a symptom of some disorder, like borderline. Don't damn your sister, she is in need of help. I'm not telling you to give her the attention she asks for, just to recognise there is a problem, and try to be understanding. I know it's hard, but it's what your sister need right now.
Not having any friends can psychologically affect a young girl. She probably is hurting inside. How do you expect kids with no friends to emotionally and mentally healthy?

Just because she has no friends doesn't mean she's a loser. These years can be tough where people are purposely cruel and they will exclude others.
wow my sister is the same way theres nothing rong with her ignore her
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