Any advice for when you walk into your parents' bedroom to find them, er...involved?
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Discreetly leave.
Never say any of the following.
"Dad, this is what you and Aunt Nancy were doing."
"You look like you're faking it Mom"
"Hold on a bit longer while I get the camcorder"
Yeah, stay outta there! That is after all how you came to be, so you gotta know! LOL! But yeah, just stay out.
Oh, God. It does happen to all of us at some point. Well, the best thing to do is, really nothing. It will not cause any mental damage. You need to forget about it. It does provide you with one hell of a funny story to tell your friends one day.
Yeah....Pick up your jaw,do not make comments like uuuuuh gross. And get out! and later apologize for entering without knocking.
Turn around, say you're sorry and walk out. I think it's great that your parents are so affectionate. Later on, tell them you're sorry again for walking in on them. Tell them you didn't see anything. Tell them how happy you are that they love each other so much and that is what you want in your future relationship.
ignore it, block it from your mind, get hypnotized if u must... leave the house. but keep in mind if they are older still in love and gettin busy then GOOD FOR THEM!!!!this happened when i was young, saturday mornings, my room was next to theirs. i would go and watch tv at the other end of the house... after one time, i said to my mother in private, PLEASE FOR GODS SAKE TURN ON THE TV OR RADIO!! she laughed, then next saturday i heard the radio blasting oldies at 6am. my clue to leave,QUICKLY!!lol
Just quietly leave, closing the door behind you. And next time, KNOCK FIRST!
IDK. I will say I am still haunted by the fact that they let me borrow the video camera and they gave me a tape for it (This was like ten years ago, I was 14). I was taping the talent show at my school and went to play the tape. At the end, it showed my parents having sex! The worst is that a friend of mine was taping parts of the show so I don't even know if he saw it.
The way I got over it was by making it a repressed memory. Sucks, but that's what you have to do.
LOL. Hon, just accept that this is a normal, healthy part of life.
No, not you observing it, hope you don't suffer too much from the trauma.
But the fact that your parents are still getting it on is really FAB.
They should be responsible enough to lock the door. That's their fault. If it bothers you, tell your school counselor.
Learn to knock.
Well, next time, knock! And after your hysterical blindness goes away, just try and remember that's how you came to be! And tho the memory will cloud your brain for sometime, let it go. Maybe tell parents a casual sorry for coming in without knocking, then go on about with your life. Oh, God, it's been over 30 years since I caught my parents "doin" it!" and I'm having FLASHBACKS!!!
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