Im a 15 year old guy and im Depressed?
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aww. its so awesome when a guy expresses his feeling. i wish they 're were more guys like you. well you know its suummer. but when its school time try and make new friends talk to new people. i know how you feel im 14 and iv gone thro what you have. And i also think that you should talk to your brother. if you want more advice email me. im glad to help.
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It's okay to cry & be depressed.
I too live a life of loneliness.
I'll be your friend, Sam.
Welll firzt thingz firzt
confidence.
thatz the key.
you juzt have to look like you know what your doing
and then people will like you..
butt..
I meann
if you think about it..
if you WANT to change
to make people like you..
then they dont really like you for you
they like you for what you've become
and you don't want that..
I know it probably doezn't mean much
and im juzt zome girl online
but if you ever need to talk
you can email me
or im me
my aim iz caydee7426866
and i have yahoo im too
=)
zo yeah
cheer up
from my point of view i guess you're just getting overshadowed by your brother. You dont have to be like him just be yourself. You dont have to have a girl friend just because everyone in your age already have one.. its not such a big deal really. good luck
i followed my brothers shadow for a while and felt like you did. untill i got away from the thought of being like my bro and found friends that liked what i liked. go it alone for a while and see what happens just dont be a loner, i know that was a dumb comment, but i mean dont shut people out and you may find what your looking for. and as for girls when they come they'll come at fifteen theres more out there.
Aw don't be bumbed out. im 15 also. You just gotta open up more. i mean dont be afraid to have conversations with random kids at school, or care about what people think about you. if you wanna do somethin go for it. act liek yourself and not how others want you to. just socialize, you know like bring up random conversation. be confident in yourself. if you make a friend make sure you stay in touch with them (it helps lmao). in the end if how you are is really who you are inside, people are attracted to your energy and whoever doesnt liek you as the way you are doesnt have to liek you at all.
First, depressions at your age is totally normal. That's just typical and to be expected.
Now, it sounds like you just need to be more distinguishable as your own person to others. I would recommend that you try to make more opportunities to go out without your brother, just try to find your own space where you can be you and not just anyone's brother. With that, you might be able to find some of the confidence and individuality that you seem to crave.
SAM u r 15 its a tough time theres a lot of folks on line who would love to be u r friend .I have no family or friends because of my job. so I have met some ppl on line.Im sure you'll get past this; it is just a phase for now. soreach out on line my friends met here & got married so true friends can be met on line- best wishes :0)
Be careful living in someone elses world. It is full of peer pressure and you can easily do something you dont want to do and will regret it.
Get your own universe and friends will come.
WHEN YOU HANG IN A GROUP, YOUR GROUP INTIMIDATES ALL NEW PEOPLE THAT YOU MAY MEET.
Say you meet a girl, but she is always hanging in a group of girls and a few guys, would you really want to hang around with her.
first off dont use the word depressed, it will make you really depressed, just say I could be better than I am. Concentrate on school and tell yourself things are going to get better and better (and they will)...dont be afraid to start up a conversation by saying something to someone just like you..there are plenty of yous out there looking too, in the meantime read a book...get good at something
Hi,
From what you said, I am not sure if it could actually be defined as depression in the sense of it being a disorder. Basically, to be diagnosed with Major Depression a clinician is looking for the following symptoms (lasting two weeks or more):
Five or more of the following symptoms (in the same 2 week period):depressed mood most of the day, diminished interest in activities that you once enjoyed, weight gain or loss or increase in appetite, insomnia or hypersomnia (sleeping too much) every day, fatigue or loss of energy every day, feelings of worthlessness or excessive guilt, psychomotor agitation, difficulty thinking, concentrating, or being very indecisive, recurrent thoughts of death or suicidal ideation.
Even if you are not depressed in the clinical sense of the word, it doesn't make your situation any less important. Living in the "shadow of" a sibling is no fun and that seems to be what is bothering you. I think it is great to be friends with the same people as your brother, but you should also start to develop friendships of your own. Find something you are good at whether it be academics, sports, a hobby, whatever and get involved with it. Maybe that will help you to meet people who have similar interests as you. Good luck.
I don't think that you're depressed, honestly. I just think that you're going through being the younger brother of some guy. I wouldn't change a lot if you want people to like you for you. If you're shy just try to talk to people that you think are cool and get to know them. Also, like someone else said, there's nothing wrong with not having a girlfriend yet. It all depends on when you're ready to.
A. Your 15. Welcome to puberty. Depression is a part of it. B. Nothing wrong w/ your bro being your best friend, unles you want more than that. C. When youre around chicks be yourself, if your older brother thinks your cool enough to hang with, they will too. I hated my litle bro til recently (he just turned 20).
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