I was convinced he really liked me?

Question:

but then he disappeared...with occasional cryptic emails popping up here and there. he does have bipolar (on medicine). How could I be SO wrong about him being into me? His actions showed it... he gushed about it, too. he jst stopped calling me. just like that. Why was I so convinced -- am I a silly girl?

Answers:
Maybe he does really like you -- but if he has mental problems, he's busy wrestling with those, and can't devote his full attention to you.

Can you live with that? Sometimes it's nice to have a guy who is attentive sometimes, but gives you space the other times -- but it's even nicer if he does it because of what he senses from you, not because he's having a mini-breakdown.

I think there are support groups for people whose loved ones have bi-polar -- you might lurk in one of the on-line ones, and see what you are getting into before you make any kind of commitment.

Well... he's bipolar. o_o; You might've been very convinced because people who are bipolar can become very different people one moment and different another moment.

Be glad he is out of your life... You do not need it. It might hurt for a while, but it is the best thing for you... The guy sounds like a jerk.

I was convinced he really liked me?

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