Hi im j and i need some more answers?
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Good grief, what ignorant answers. I am so sorry you had this ordeal at such a tender age. Sexual abuse, at any age, does not cause homosexuality however it can lead you to question yourself and your feelings because it was traumatic. Please talk with your parents or another trusted adult about what happened to you so that you can get some counseling, both for yourself and for your brother who may have been abused himself by someone. Please disregard the first two responses to your question-they are simply ignorant.
first of all I hope the j stands for jess or some other boy name and what was your brother thinking to put his thing as you put it in your mouth does he want to swallow it. that's nasty and gross. you need to spit that stuff out it can make you sick and have a bad smell on your breath go see a doctor when that happened because I don't think a girl wants to kiss u on the mouth with that stuff having a trace of it in your mouth. you need to go see a quack or a psychiatrist because why in the world or you wanting to be gay or a fruit in slang do you want a dude to turn you out i don't think so your mind is going whacko because you like girls and you broke up with one and that's not a good lifestyle to have if you're in church because it's wrong. you didn't want to break with your girlfriend because you were heart broken talk to her and try to explain to her what happened i hope she understand and don't tell you you're gross what's wrong with you. also your brother need help because that's physical and mental abuse on your part and he need to go to the organization where teens and young adults get abused and get helped.
Hi,
You are saying you broke up with a girl when you was eight years old, you loved her, your brother stuck his d**k in your mouth and now you think you are gay!!
At eight you were not in love.
One d**k 'forced' on you does not, and will not, make you gay.
It may have traumatised you, subconsiously, and you might even turn into a pervert in later years, all you can do is wait and see.
Live the best hetrosexual life you can, if it is wrong for you then you will soon know when you mature a bit.
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you need to talk to a therapist so you can get over what your brother did to you and that will help you decide whether or mot you are gay or not ,and if your not and your girlfriend still doesn't want to get back together,you will find another girlfriend
Wait What the heck? So you were eight when you had the girlfriend? Wow thats young. At least you told your parents. Right? Right? It doesn't mean you're gay. If your brother was 18 or older he could go to jail.
Hi, J, son, I think your concern is very legitimate, but I also think that you need more professional help than what we can give you on here...I really think that you need the help of a psychiatrist to sort out these feelings and concerns so you can begin to travel the road to wholeness. Please,if you can talk to your parents or another adult that you trust and let them help you get into counsel ling. You need to do it soon so that you can walk into adulthood with a clear conscience and a total understanding of who you really are.
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