If people call you anerixic but you think there just jealus that your skinny and there not are you??


Question:
people say i am 1 of the skinnieist in my class but i think they are all just fat (because they r) i mean last year i was a complete fat girl probably the fattist so what do you guys think?? how do you now you are??

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first, we must consider how you lost the weight? did you lose it by maintaining a healthy lifestyle (exercise, well balanced diet)? if not, you probably have an eating disorder. most girls with an eating disorder are never happy with their appearance and find the flaws in everyone else too and wish for this warped version of perfection which does not really exist.

and also, just because you "used to be" fat, doesn't give you the right to talk down about those bigger than you. this shows you are truely insecure with yourself.

if they are asking out of genuine concern, and you get defensive, chances are you have an eating disorder. if, however, they are mocking you for losing weight, it could be that they are jealous and or insecure, but that does not make it right for either of you to act that way.

remember that above all, beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder. you will only be as beautiful as you see other people. if you honestly think you may have an eating disorder, you should seek help.
They are probably right. Just because someone is larger than you does not mean that they are fat and simply jealous of your looks. they may simply be concerned for you that your weight has went down too low.
That is difficult to give an intelligent answer to. What is your daily nutrition intake and output. How do you take it in, and how to you expel it.
You probably are anorexic. Or, at least you are on the verge of it. The other people are probably not fat at all. In fact they are more than likely normal size. Maybe you should visit the doctor as well as your English teacher. It looks like you have a little trouble spelling. Good luck.
Calling people fat when they are normal weight is not the way to go about this. They are not jealous I can tell you that. If you are that skinny and weren't before then something is going on. Sounds like you need to get some help for this.
I notice you did not mention your height or bone size. It is a great feeling to be very slim after you have been overweight. But, that can 'get to you' in a very bad way. You weigh 100 pounds. If you are of medium bone size and are more than 5 feet tall, you may need to have a reality check on your healthy weight amount. I have a tendency to be anorexic..I have to watch myself very closely. I am 5'5" tall, and have a hard time staying up to as much as 115 pounds. If I don't pay really good attention, I find myself weighing in at 99 pounds....that's anorexic. Being anorexic is nothing to be jealous of...it kills. Your body, when it is not given the food it needs, actually, begins to feed off of itself. Yes, your own body can destroy you, if you are not eating enough food, drinking enough water. While it sounds fun to say, "I wear a size zero, or a one", if your body needs to wear a size 6 or 8, and you don't allow it, you can seriously damage your health. Remember, if you are thinking of how you look to guys..guys like curves on a girl. Even slightly overweight females look sexier than totally too thin ones. Too thin offers no curves at all. Ask your counselor for a chart of proper weights for particular heights and body types. See how you fit into this chart. THEN, ask yourself if you are going for the skinniest person around, or for the prettiest, healthiest. Health is beautiful.
You know, I kinda dealt w. the same thing one year. It felt like crap. But anyways, don't even worry about them. maybe some one those fat chicks hating would lose weight themselves next year! i made that happen that following year girls were jealous.
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