Do u think im gay?
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Well, I guess the real issue is why you so much don't want to be gay. It sounds as though it's forbidden territory for you. And, as we all know, what is forbidden can seem the most attractive. So whether you actually would feel fulfilled in a gay relationship (which is not all about sex!) is something you really can't know until it stops being something so terrifyingly out of order that it's almost so attractive you can't resist.. if you see what I mean.
ya man your as bent as an s hook
are you attracted to women too?
if you do... then you're bi. =]
u hav only to say that u r not
me i am attracted to man but i say that i am not gay
imean u can say that a man is beutifull without lovin him
it doesn't mean that you are gay and besides being gay is a choice so just choose not to be. look at a playboy or something and see if it does anything and then you'll know.
yea,you are gay all t.hat you know you are guy you should of never asked nobody are you gay i would embarresed to ask somebody is im gay
You probably don't have much control over whether you are gay or not, any more than you can control being left handed. There is a big Christian organization which claims to convert gay men back to straight, but the two men who founded it ran off with each other and are now a gay couple so I don't think it worked (ha ha!)
If you are young, don't stress, and don't jump to any conclusions. Give yourself some time to figure out who you are and there will be time later to have a relationship that makes sense to you. DON'T get pressured into having a straight relationship if it's not you (especially don't get married because it's not fair to the girl). Watch Brokeback Mountain and see if it seems like how you feel (hey, I"m not kidding here!)
you can't ask someone if ur gay! and being gay isn't a choice! but from wat u say it does sound like u are gay! there is a difference between maybe saying that a man is beautiful and looking at his privates. You look at men's privates and are attracted to them so i would say that you are gay!
it depends.. do you feel like having sex with womens.. you see dreams about wemens . are you attached with some women.. if tese things goes opposite then u r definetly gay..
You're not only gay, you're a big huge Cher-loving rainbow flag-waving body glitter-wearing flaming queen!
if you think you might be gay then you gay
I no what ur? was but have u ever looked at a women
If you look at other men sexually,
feel attracted to men,
dream of having relationships with men,
having dirty dreams with men,
then you are gay.
Why don't you want to be gay? Being gay is NOT a choice and is something you will just have to live with. BE YOUR TRUE SELF!
go out experiment if u like it then u are gay .. but maye just Bi
First of all, don't treat the fact that your questioning your sexuality as if it were a disease. Only you know how you really feel inside. Either way, it's not a flaw. It's however you were created. I realize we live in a world where things aren't still accepted. Unwed woman are still stoned to death in some places. Black people were treated as dogs. And homosexuality is still a taboo with some people. But that's their hangup! Don't be afraid to be who you are, whatever you may be, or you will one of the unhappy people trying to be someone else to please someone else, ok?
I applaud your honesty on this issue as well as your fear. I can see the battle that must presently rage within you! I would like to share something with you if I may. I am actually working on my masters degree in counseling and have been doing heavy research into the area of sexuality, and even more specifically into the area of homosexuality. I have discovered two large schools of thought on the issue: the idea that you are born that way, and the idea that you choose to be the way you are. But I will say it is neither. Science shows absolutely nothing regarding the gay gene and nobody chooses who they are attracted to - gay, straight, or bi. Rather, I am beginning to realize, it is really an emotional connection that the individual craves. I would encourage you to explore your past and especially your childhood. We all go through stages of emotional development, and the healthy developing child must pass through a stage in which they reject the opposite sex (remember - they have cooties) and bond with the same sex. Believe it or not, this point in a person's development is crucial for establishing NEEDED same sex love, bonding, and for creating a stable gender identity. So that by the time puberty roles around, we are stable in who we are and the opposite sex looks very attractive (also because we have our same sex love tank full - and curiosity sets in... curiosity for the mystery of the unknown opposite sex). However, I believe in the case of the homosexual, something goes wrong during that time, and the emotional need for connection and love goes unmet (whether it's peer rejection, rejection by the father, or generally feelings of not matching up to one's gender and not being accepted/loved by one's gender). So by the time puberty hits, the love tank is so empty that it begins to consume all thoughts... and the developing sexual drive intertwines with the craving for same sex love (a legitimate emotional need). Research shows that we often sexualize our deepest needs. And generally, many people in the homosexual lifestyle, for some reason or another, felt isolated from their sex as children, admiring them from afar, longing, craving to be accepted and loved by them - which is why so many say they've been gay all their life. They've had the desire for same-sex love since childhood. But all of us have that desire. And as I said before, when it goes unmet for so long, so many years even, it will consume nearly every waking thought.
If you don't want to be gay, you don't have to be. There is hope. I know countless people that have left the lifestyle, all with similar stories of childhood pain, yet have gone on to live healthy heterosexual lives. And sure some fall back into the lifestyle, but many alcoholics and drug addicts relapse. Why? Because once an individual engages in homosexual activity, they feel a release... they think, oh, this is what I've needed all my life. When in actuality, the release they feel was only the normal sexual release. But because their craving for same sex love overshadows everything else, they automatically tie the two together. But like every sexual release, it is short-lived. So they do it again. And again. And again. Until what? They are addicted to it, like any other drug. Why so hard to leave the lifestyle? They are addicted to it. Why the relapses? Addiction. And how can men and women live their entire lives through and never feel attracted to the opposite sex? Because they're not meeting the correct need. Sex doesn't solve a deeper emotional problem. It actually only makes things worse. But every ex-gay person I have spoken with said the same thing - They began to seek healthy, non-sexual, same-sex bonding relationships. And gradually over time, their same-sex love tank filled and the sexual feelings they felt began also to simultaneously decrease. One even commented that he felt like he went through puberty twice. Because after he felt emotionally connected with men, women began to catch his eye. And that is the natural progression into the next developmental stage. If you are struggling with feelings for the same sex, it is not too late. It is never too late. But I would encourage you to research the sources I have included. I would also encourage you to seek God because I promise you, He will be your greatest source of strength as you dive into your soul, what makes you who you are and what has happened in your life to bring you to the place you are. The road may be long, and it may be painful. But the return is priceless. I promise.
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