I just found out my girlfriend smokes pot, I'm extremely disappointed and I want to help her.?


Question:
So after sitting down with my girlfriend a few days ago, she admitted to me of her pot smoking. I was blown hard by this. I was raised being told that pot and drugs did nothing but kill people. I was extremely disappointed. I want her to stop, but I don't want to break up with her. Is there anything I can do without seeking "professional help?"

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A lot of people go through the smoking pot stage in life.. I don't think she'd like you trying to get her help unless she wants help. Maybe you can talk to her and tell her that it bugs you that she smokes and you want her to stop and see what she says. Pot is seriously not that bad. There are a lot of worse things out there than pot and think about it if it makes her happy doing it would you rather her do that or something else that is worse?
replace pot with something else?
sex maybe?
its not that serious man. If she's not a heavy smoker don't worry about it. If she just smokes once a week let her be. Better that than alcohol.
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be glad she's not injecting heroin, pot is really quite harmless. stoners are annoying sometimes but it's not like she's a raging crank-addict.
Well you have to ask yourself, are you willing to be in a relationship where your other half is killing herself? Everyone can downplay it as much as they like but just because it isn't as bad as some other things doesn't mean you should overlook it. If she really wants to be with you, then she'll stop. Otherwise I'd cut her loose. It just isn't worth the emotional toll. You just gotta tell her that you can't be involved with someone who isn't going to take care of themself.
Maybe you should just give it a go yourself. I personally don't smoke any drug of any kind. But, pot is not a bad drug. If you haven't noticed yet that you dating a pot head, then maybe it's not as bad a you think. Seriously. unclench.
Marijuana is not addictive, and the only way you could kill yourself with it is if you dropped a 100 pound brick of it on your head.

As long you she isn't doing it all the time (which I would guess she isn't if it took you this long to figure it out), it's not very harmful.

You're overreacting. She doesn't "need help." I think you've been lied to about the kind of harm that marijuana does.

If you want a harmful drug, let's talk about alcohol. And yet, that's perfectly legal.
okay, well, first off... i read some of those bullsh*t answers... fieyr - are you a fuckin christian? whats wrong with you?
jim claudini - fu<k you! dont say stoners are annoying and dont fuckin talk **** about crack addicts!

alright... what you have to realize is that everything happens for a reason in this world... when things happen, you might see them as bad things, and forget that one day you'll realize why that happened... but you have to look past the bad thing to realize its for a reason...
smoking weed wont cause hardly any harm... and it creates peace, i live in BC Canada, and its the most peaceful place because everyone tokes... we can just walk up to strangers and spark a joint with them... you gotta just be chill... we're all really happy...
and without marijuana i'd be in the hospital right now for anorexia, but thanks to weed i've been staying at a normal weight... it also spared me severe depression which i was heading into and it kept me out of it... and when i quit doing cocaine, weed was what helped me survive... when the times get rough, you can always toke...
just sit back, play the bongos and guitars, just chill, listen to the music all afternoon...
you want to help her buy her a bong or learn how to roll blunts its really not that bad its not the GATEWAY drug that everybody makes it out to be if it was more readily available people would not need other drugs
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whoever raised you must have been on crack to think that smoking some weed will kill you. no one, no one, no one has ever died as a direct result of smoking weed. hell, it's probably less damaging to your body than alcohol, nicotine and the countless prescription meds that mimic the effects of heroin.
she doesn't need any help. help yourself, smoke a j and relax.
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Good luck!
pot cant kill people... unless u had a rele rele rele sharp bud and poked it in someone's temple or something... hmmmmm that would b interesting
I hate to remind everyone of this but pot has never been legalized. That means it's against the law. Whether you like it or not, whether you agree with the law or not. I would stay away from drug users, I have never seen anything postive come from it. Smoking ANYTHING can cause cancer or other health problems. I would not want my woman to smoke period. Good luck to you...
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