What have I done?
Question:
I dont know what to do. I met this guy online a little over a month ago.We have been seeing each other often(movies,skydiving,dinner. I realized that I just dont want to be his girlfriend anymore ): I dont like him. I dont know what happened. I told him how I feel the other day and he said" I think we should stay together and work this out" Work what out? Then today I put my profile back up on the site that he and I met on. He was on the site and saw my profile. He called and said " Are you dating other people?" and I said"You are welcome to start dating other people if you want." He said "No I want you to be my girlfriend,we should go steady." I dont know what all of this is about! Something keeps telling me to stay away from him. He wants me to go to the movies with him tommorow.I feel like just turning off my phone and ignoring him. I told him that I dont want to be his girlfriend anymore and he ignored me. HELP!!!
Answers:
Hi Choc-chip-
Honestly, I cannot tell you how many times my gutt instinct was accurate and I didn't listen- if your gutt tells you something is strange about this person, something you don't trust, go with it- ignore him, change your handle/name if you can - don't go with him.
Too many times I hear about girls being taken, things done to them, even killed, listen to your gutt and steer clear from him.
Something is making you feel uncomfortable, that alone would sound the alarm for me...
Hugs and please stay safe
Just tell him you're not interested anymore. You have the power to make your own decisions.
He sounds like an obsessed stalker. Stay away from him!
Early signs of a "Control Freak." Ignore him at all cost and count your blessings you found out so early in the relationship. Control freaks can, and most often, become batterers. Save your mental and physical health by staying away from him. Good luck
Sounds like he is trouble. I would watch your back and maybe call the cops; restraining order.
GO WITH YOUR GUT FEELING! he's only hanging onto you because he knows how great you are! but i fyou don't feel the same for him don't waste your time or energy. call it off and make it clear to him that your done. change your phone number and email if need be. it doesn't really matter if he goes on believing you are his girlfriend as long as you are physically and mentally free of him.
I would have said yes Im dating others.& I'ld get a restraining order & not answer him in anyway Really sound like trouble from what u say..please be careful
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