Suicide!! please help? What do i Do?
Question:
I would talk to my parents, but they probably think i was joking
i just want to be the perfect daughter for them, and being suicidal ruins everything for that, but it is how i feel everytime i try and hold it it gets worse.
What do you suggest? is a hospital that bad?
Answers:
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TALK TO A COUNSOLOR
OR CALL THE DEPRESSION HOTLINE.
Hospitals are not that bad especially for those who are self admitted. In other words not forced but there for help by choice. I think its best to admit to your parents that you need help! Remeber they love you no matter what and they would never ever want to loose you! No parent expects perfection we are all human and theyd be more devistated by loosing you than they will be by finding out your depressed and feeling alone.
Please just don't do it!
You need to get by alot of people, like family or someone that will make sure you wont do anything...
Then you should call a suicide hot line or something
I don't think a hospital is that bad. You may feel uneasy because you're not at home and whatnot but I totally understand how you feel. They may just do a 72 hour lock down on you to make a decision if you should stay longer or not. I do suggest you talk to someone about how you're feeling. If you want someone to talk to but are embarrassed about it I'm here for you. I don't want you to hurt yourself. I've been there and done that. I wish you luck in whatever you decide to do.
Its not that bad ~ they wont restrain you unless u -r violent or aim to hurt yourself~ call suicide hot line.- thats what they are for maybe just talking to the pros will help Maybe u just need meds?? or just a counselor ?? But They will guide youn do it now~best wishes
Please seek help! There are lots of folks who can help you. You ony get one chance to live!
queen462606, add me to your messenger. I have been there before so I may have some advice. Whatever you do talk to someone. I am online right now waiting.
no the hospitals are not that bad.If you are feeling this way then maybe you need more help than you realize. You say you want to be the perfect daughter for your parents which no one can be you need to be yourself and find out who you are.Getting help is the best thing you can do for yourself at this point.Tell someone right now how you are feeling and let them help you through this don't do it by yourself
At some hospitals they restrain people who are only trying to harm themselves or others and by the way you are talking your not one of those people you just want help your life is precious to everyone around you even if they don't know how to show you.
You family wants you and I am sure they want you to be happy they want you alive not dead how will they feel if you died from suicide they would blame themselves and so would your friends and other loved ones don't do that to them let them love you and let them help you get help so you can love yourself
Taylor
Please talk to someone. Call a local hotline or call a trusted friend.
You are to special to leave this earth. Your family and friends would miss you dearly and a suicide will cause them immense pain that will never go away. I've had friends commit suicide and it is the worst. Please know that you are loved. email me if you need to talk. If I don't respond right away I will when I log in. mariag@cableone.net
"PLEASE CALL SOMEONE ASAP, THE SUICIDE HOTLINE COULD HELP YOU,BUT WHATEVER YOU DO GET HELP NOW!!!!
no sucide
in any way...
I thought of suicide before. Mainly because I was embarrassed about my drug use and drinking. I thank God that I got some help. I am fairly happy and well adjusted today. Ur depression will Ease and u will be happy again. I promise U.
Talk to a counselor. Get help right away. Unless u r violent u wont be restrained or stuck with needles and I doubt ur parents will loose custody of u. A hospital might be the best place for u or u may just need outpatient treatment. It would depend on alot of factors.
If u don't want to talk to a counselor u can talk to a Catholic Priest. They are not allowed to tell what they hear in confession to anyone. They will only try to talk and help u.
Feel free to email or IM me if u think it will help.
God Bless you.
talk to your parents. okay i went through the same thing. tell them you want to a a shrink. they help they truley do. you may need to be put on anti-depressants and thats okay. once you feel happy agian you'll be so glad you did it.
The best thing for you to do is get help! You have already started the procees simply by asking others what you need to do. Do not attempt suicide, it sounds like you are a teenager and you have your whole life ahead of you. Those things in life that seem terrible, upset you and make you feel depressed are only a phase. I have good news for you though, things will get better! You seriously need to talk to your parents about your feelings. If you talk to them very seriously and keep your composure you parents will not go off the deep like you are fearing. You are getting older so if you have a mature conversation with your folks they will take you seriously and will try to find you help. If you try and attempt suicide but fail you stand the posibbility of being hospitalized.
GET HELP! and talk to your folks!
Suicide is not the answer. I am sure your parents would much rather have you alive and be the not-so-perfect daughter than dead. If you need someone to talk to give me a call 415-948-9444. What ever you're going through is only temporary.
Please call the suicide hotline 1800-273-8255. They can help. I worked in a crisis unit for a while and They will not not restain you unless you are completely out of control. If you go voulintarly, they will get you someone to talk to some right away. Call 911 if you have to but don;t hurt yourself. Shitty situations come and go and with some help whatever your situation is it will pass. I will keep you in my prayers. If you just need someone to talk to feel free to email me.
THINK HOW YOUR PARENTS WOULD FEEL IF THEY LOST THEIR DAUGHTER. now, you must have some good reason for reservations about talking to your parents. well, just let it go,
TALK TO THEM...i can not assure you that they have all of the answers, or any of them. what i can tell you is that they NEED TO KNOW.
look, any one can need help at some time in their life or another. consider yourself fortunate that you have identified your problem at such an early stage in your life.
additionally, would you kill your pet dog because it had a broken leg, of course not...this is what you are thinking of doing to yourself, essentally there is no differance between a person with a physical problem and one with a mental problem, except perhaps sometimes mental problems just take more effort to cure, but this is not an obstacle
YOU KINOW YOU NEED HELP, RIGHT...SO GET HELP.
beside, killing yourself is a sin and is just plain stupid.
" THY SHALL NOT KILL." no if's and's or but's about it
call a suicide hotline.PLEASE EMAIL ME!! just click on my avatar. don't kill yourself please i beg of you don't.
Hi: You've gotten a lot of good advice. Just remember suicide is a permanent to a temporary problem. I've been there and you'll get over it--even rape.
PLEASE call 1-800-SUICIDE! They know what you are going through and they can help!
I am glad that you are concerned about your parents. I'm sure they would be so sad if you did anything to hurt yourself. Going to the hospital is better than dying. Also, you may not need to go to the hospital. Talk to the people at 1-800-SUICIDE. They understand and can give you good, honest, wise advice, and they can answer your questions.
Please go to the emergency room as soon as possible. They'll be able to help you.
I'm guessing you're a teenager, based on the way you describe your situation. I work on an adolescent inpatient psychiatric unit. I promise, it is NOT like it is portrayed in movies. The only times restraints are used is if a person's behavior is out of control and is in danger of hurting themselves or others. Injections with needls are only used if a person's behavior is out of control as well, because the meds that are injected work quicker to calm the person down. The only needles that might be involved is if the hospital where you go has you do blood tests (just to rule out infections and other medical conditions). It is really doubtful that you will get taken away from your family...you have to be in a pretty dangerous situation at home for you to be removed from your home. I've worked on the same adolescent psych unit for over three years and I can't think of any instances where someone got removed from their parents.
You do NOT have to be perfect. It's easy to feel that way (I'm a perfectionist too) but you put so much pressure on yourself when you do that and it can make your depressive/suicidal thoughts worse. DO tell your parents how you're feeling...they will want to know. Tell the you have a plan with the bag of pills. They can take you an ER to get you evalulated and possibly placed in the hospital if necessary.
It really does sound like you need to be seen by a doctor, since you're having suicidal thoughts and a definitive plan for how you would do it. It is not as bad as you think it will be. I was hospitalized (ironically enough, on the adult unit of the same facility where I work at now!) when I was 23 (I'm almost 27 now) for depression, suicidal thoughts, and cutting. I'm telling you, it was probably one of the best things that's ever happened to me, because it got me the help I needed. If you do wind up getting hospitalized, don't be afraid to ask the staff about anything you have questions about...they are there to help you.
I know this is a really long answer, but I do hope you will get help. Things do get better, I promise. Hope this helps.
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