I'm always going nuts!?
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Then i had birds die on me. One in particular i put somewhere and come back seeing it sat on by my uncle who didn't see it. now THAT was my fault, i hated myself so much for it. There was this rabbit that died too, it was a gift when i visited my family but it died when i left. thankfully i didnt witness it.
back to my point, im an animal killer. Not intentionally but cause of all this im always freaking out when my rabbit has a problem with it, cause i think its going to die. ive had it for 4 years tho.
I love animals almost as much as i love people, so this animal death situation is a really sensitive topic.
whats wrong with me, how can i stop this?
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It's like a matter of focus. There's a saying, "Marriage is a terrible institution. 50% of them end in divorce, the other 50% end in death". That's what you are saying.
Do you believe that, "It's better to have loved and lost..."?
Really, you are a LOVING, CARING PERSON. Animals will die. It happens. But YOU CARED about the animal, before & after it died.
Keep thinking about how YOU CARED. That's special.
dont have pets? and NEVER meet me! hah
1. don't listen to RDubs.
2. talk to a therapist, omg mine helped me soo much with my problems and they can help you too i swear by it;; plus if you need medication they give it to you. and that's okay, there is nothing wrong with taking medication becuase a lot of 'normal' people you see everyday are on them too, heck so am i and nobody has suspected it.
yea maybe it is best if you don't have pets - they do die people do to - but they usually live longer then pets.
Four years is a extremely old rabbit you are to be congratulated on the excellent care you must have gave this animal in order for it to live this long .
Nothing is wrong with you. I've had two cats, a old dog, a baby rabbit and a bird die on me. I didn't do anything wrong, it just happened. I gave them all a good life while I had them, and my heart was in the right place. I'm sure you're the same.
you are very sensitive to animals. You have not had good experiences with them and they die, so it is upsetting to you,. Remember that death is a part of living and animals sometimes do not live long. Especially the smaller ones. You got to stop blaming yourself for this. It is something that you have no control over. Do the best you can with them, and love them. There your pets, and just take care of them , and you will have nothing to feel guilty about.
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