My boyfriend seems to always have a problem with people everywhere he goes. He always get's into arguments.
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Sounds like he may have a personality disorder, HE`S NOT A SOCIOPATH, they don`t want you to know they hate you. Individuals with personality disorders have a hard time getting along with people. Sociopaths try to gain a person`s attention to hurt them. He sounds like he has some rage issues as well, I would seriously debate about how far this relationship is going to go since you are " another person " to him and one day he may rage and hurt you..
Time to get away from this one...you are going to end up getting hurt, because of his actions...please, dont mess around here, this is a bad scene..unless he can take some anger management classes, you will be next
I agree.get out!
He sounds like he's a sociopath. My ex husband was exactly like your guy..he's now a crack addict.
One thing I've learned throughout my life..take people for who they are...believe what they show you...and Honey, he's showing you a lot. I'd be afraid, very afraid.
Something to think about.
RUN, don't walk from this guy. Too many women think "he'll never hurt me" just to end up in the hospital, or the morgue. This guy needs anger management counseling big time. And if he's talking about hurting someone, people will typically hurt the one that's most convenient, and guess what - that's you! Tell him you care for him but your concerned about his behavior, and until he decides to do something about it you don't want to (or can't) be with him. Then you might want to do some deep introspective thinking yourself to make sure you don't have a co-dependent personality (someone who needs to be with someone they feel needs their help, or a person who's attracted to addicts and abusers). If this guy really cares for you, he'll seek help. If not, you're better off ending it now before he hurts you, or someone you love.
Run...and run like hell. This person has major abusive tendencies and you need to break from this relationship ASAP. It's NOT normal for anyone under any circumstances to have these feelings of anger and rage. You may think now that he doesn't act out towards you, but he will when he doesn't have anyone to direct it towards around. All these things you have said about him are major red flags. Find someone who goes out of their way to get along with other people-he's more likely to be one who would go out of their way for you...and that's what matters.
anger management cannot help unless people sincerely take resposnibility for their life.
honey run don't walk from this one - you are lucky he is a truck driver - you can be gone when he is on the road w/o any ugly scenes.
A rat smells it's own hole?
If it acts like an A*hole, talks like an A*hole, smells like an A*hole, chances are "ITs" and A*hole.
Anger, poor coping skill, obsessiveness, narcissism, anti-social, depression..
Taking life too damned seriously make a person act out in a way that impedes relations with other.
Life is too short to try to control things you have no control of. Take a chill pill.
GET OUT! This is the kind of guy who, when you leave him, you should seriously consider leaving town altogether and just disappearing into the night. This is the kind of guy that they make Lifetime movies about. This guy WILL hurt you if you stay with him, it's just a matter of when. Don't hang around to find out.
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