Why do I want to call him so badly?
Question:
The main problem is that he just stopped talking to me. No closure. I just have this anxiety that I have to DO something... but logically I know I can't. He's also bipolar (on meds) so who knows what really happened! I just can't get rid of this anxiety and desire to contact. I haven't tried in over a week.
Answers:
Forget him. There are more fish in the sea.
Trust me honey. If he is bipolar then you dont want any part of that life. It's better just to go on with your life and get a new man.
I'm assuming you care about him and you want either some kind of closure for yourself or you are worried and want to make sure he is ok. And as far as people saying forget him or whatever, if you truly care(d) about him it's easier said than done and it's always easier to tell someone advice objectivly that to actually live through the situation and follow that advice. you need to take time to heal. and trust that in time, you really will be ok, and like the saying goes " what's meant to be will always find its way."
stay busy doing other things.get out of the house and away from the phone.
Holy cow. This looks like a question I could have written. I caller id blocked and called him, but couldn't talk. Then I wrote him a letter. No response. I think I (we) need to just move on. But that's easier said than done. I feel obsessed. He is bipolar, too. Maybe it'll help you to know you're not alone.
K
I think you really cared about him, and he is now gone. Just do not try to contact him, i think he is trying to tell you it is over. Move on with your life, it is the best thing.
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