Would you date someone that was fat but with a great personality?


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One should never judge a book by it's cover!

It is not now, has been or will be what anyone appears to be on the outside. What matters the most in every single one of us is what we are inside of us, what we carry in our hearts.

I am judged all the time it seems for not who I am inside, in my heart but because I have Bipolar Disorder and I am judged on that fact and not on who I am.

Fat, skinny, short or tall it does not matter, ever. It is truly what is in the heart that matters most in life.

Be safe and be well
Why not?
Sure. I go by personality. I am one of the few people who could really care less what a person looks like.
Yes, I have and I had really good sex with her too. More than once.
Yep, if my wife said it was okay...which she wouldn't. Wait. Let me ask....


Uh, nope. Sorry.
I dont think so. I couldn't look past the fatness.
yes. i dont really care what they look like.
No. Personality is only important when selecting among attractive people.
Yes. I love a great personality.
Yes, of course.

Physical attraction is something that really starts a relationship, even thought that might seem shallow. But in the end, you just want someone with the great personality.
a greatttt personality? It would depend. Being healthy is something i look for in a relationship, if you like to do stuff outdoors or excersize it might be good to have that in common. But honestly, if you really like him or her, go for it! in the long run its always best to have someone with a good personality rather than something like looks, which wont get you thru a fight. As they always say, only marry for love:)
If we were friends first and I though it might work, then maybe. But I have to admit I'm vain and how well someone takes care of themself matters. I put work into my body, I expect others to do the same.
Yes, but it depends on what you mean by a "great personality." The person would still have to be sexy---confident and secure in his sexuality. I wouldn't be attracted to the fat and jolly type.
No but I would be their friend
yea i think i would if he had a great personality and if he at least he was a little cute give them a chance.
If I found them attractive, yes. Of course. I am not one of those shallow people that equates skinny with attractive. Attractiveness comes in all shapes, sizes, forms, and colors. If this person has a great personality and you get along and have things in common, then go for dating them regardless of their size. Some people will never be a size 0.
It depends on how fat? . Like grossly obese , I would have a problem with that. But, chubby, or with a beer belly, I could date someone like that.
Personality is very important... However often it is looks that catch our attention in the first place.
id say it depends because some fat people just sit on there buts all day while their family gives them food but if they wernt fat by laziness then yes i would date them if they had a good personality.
If you judge by the first you are worried about the vanity of things. especially if you see that the person is great.. it is so hard to find a wonderful person (on the inside) these days. add good looks to someone and you are sometimes even less likely to find that great personality! I'd say a person with good morals, decency and respect are worth millions more than a hot bod any day..
Yes, if he were good looking and if I was not married.
Yep, I actually prefer a man with meat on his bones. Especially if he has a great sense of humor and sense of self.
no i like skinny girls
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