What causes masochism?
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Well, for some people it's caused by self-hatred/low self-esteem due to abuse. But for other people, it can be a simple curiosity about pain and bodily sensation. I don't think scientists really know why one person or another finds pain enjoyable, though.
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Geez, people have been asking that question ever since the Marquis de Sade.
Ask five psychologists what causes masochism and you'll get ten different answers.
A dangerous method used by a few is called hypoxyphilia or near-asphyxiation caused by reducing oxygen level in the brain; it results in the accidental death of one or two per million people per year (Morrison, 1995). To achieve near-asphyxiation, masochists might place a noose around their necks, put airtight bags over their heads or use amyl nitrates (“poppers”).
Ditto the answer from Old Fat Guy... It could be lack of self esteem, child abuse, culture, social situation, anything...
One theory is based on learning theory that paraphilias originate because inappropriate sexual fantasies are suppressed. Because they are not acted upon initially, the urge to carry out the fantasies increases and when they are finally acted upon, a person is in a state of considerable distress and/or arousal. In the case of sexual masochism, masochistic behavior becomes associated with and inextricably linked to sexual behavior.
There is also a belief that masochistic individuals truly want to be in the dominating role. This causes them to become conflicted and thus submissive to others.
Another theory suggests that people seek out sadomasochistic behavior as a means of escape. They get to act out fantasies and become new and different people.
I dont know. Normal j/o is just fine with me.
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