Is there a psychologist specialized in healing urges like the need of meeting people and questioning?

Question:

My friend has this urge to meet girls and question them about their childhood or other personal details from their past. He really has this urge and from time to time he has to meet up with different women to talk about that but those girls don't know why he meets up with them. They might think he is interested in them but after 2 or 3 meetings he doesn't want to meet the same person any more. Please, if there is someone there able to tell me what to do to heal him of this urge, I'd really appreciate that. Thank you.

Answers:
It sounds to me like your friend may have his own issues from childhood that he needs to deal with. Meeting these girls two to three times, questioning them about intimate details and then not seeing them anymore may indicate a fear of intimacy. He may be hoping that someone will share with him some of his own issues...

The best thing you can do for your friend is be supportive. You might suggest that he go to a therapist, but prepare for him to be defensive. If some of your other friends are noticing the same behaviours, you might want to work together to get him help.

talk to them about there past?thats kinda different.Maybe hes looking for a cetrain type of chick or something.sounds to me like he just likes to get up in th kool aid if you know what i mean.and as far as his urge goes.maybe he gets off on that or something.you should tell him to talk to a therapist.If he has some underlying issues.

good luck

Is there a psychologist specialized in healing urges like the need of meeting people and questioning?

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