College Anxiety??
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One thing I can say is to get to know your roommate, and/or people from Facebook and other sites. Knowing people before you go makes it a bit easier. Another thing is to walk to the buildings your classes are at before the first day of classes, as that will also make things a little easier. It did for me, anyway.
Also, check with your RA. Chances are, RAs will have activities for new students to meet each other. There are tons of other students who will be in the same boat as you. Take advantage of that, as well as on-campus clubs. In addition, your RA is there if you have problems with your roommates. They are non-biased and will help you work problems out. If there are severe problems, you can be moved, but they'll make you try to work things out first, which is a good thing. (I had that happen.)
Good luck!
Yeah...embrace it because it won't last long. First steps towards adulthood are always scary...but the more you do them, the more adjusted you get to them.
Just let it take its course. Obviously you are going to be nervous because you are going to COLLEGE. It is the next big step. It will be weird for the first couple of weeks while you are getting adjusted and meeting new people.
BEST ADVICE! As soon as you get there, go out and meet new people! Get to know as many people you can because these people will be your family for the next four years. I don't know how you feel about greek systems, but I highly recommend.
Just go, have fun, and enjoy college. These really will be some of the best years of your life. I miss my college days like crazy.
In responce to Lovingdaddy's comment about the greek system:
Just go check out an info meeting about sororities before you judge. You will hear alot of negitive comments from independents, or those that are not greek. You will hear the same negative remark from them... Oh they are only paying for their friends. Well when you think about it, 5 bucks for a person that I will know for the rest of my life... WELL WORTH IT. Not saying go greek, just keep your mind open. That is what college is all about.
get involved with groups on campus. it will help with homesickness.
Just learn your way around campus and keep your hormones in check.
Beyond that, stay out of the greek system. It really isn't all that its cracked up to be. But do get involved in other activities, such as student government, etc.
May your roommate(s) be a blessing and not a burden to you all the days that you are in school.
Relax and you will be fine. Every year, every university has an influx of new students that are scared or nervous and don't have a clue. Get on campus a few days early and walk around and find everything. If you wait until the first day of class the anxiety will be worse. If you have an academic interest, there will be a group for it and the whole sorority system is waiting for you. Good Luck!
i like college more than high school...its a more laid back environment...more work... but dont fret you'll probably meet a whole bunch of new people...think about all the other newcomers..you're not alone...lol.
Well I'm a junior in college (Kent State WOO!! lol) & let me tell you, my first day that I moved into my dorm was scary for me. I was so nervous about making 1st impressions that I didn't know what to do lol. But don't sweat it, it's not that big a deal, ppl won't judge you like you think they would. My advice to you would be to join a lot of clubs & organizations. That is a sure way to make lasting friendships. I did marching band & let me tell you, that was the best decision I ever made. I met all of my best friends that way & had a blast while doing so. Don't party too hard when you get there b/c it is easy to fall behind & as tempting as not going to class will be... GO TO CLASS GO TO CLASS GO TO CLASS! You will fall behind so easily by not going to class it isn't even funny. The teachers will not give you notes or tell you what they did in class while you weren't there. So you will have to get that info from your class mates. Also, use your e-mail system. Communicate with your professors by all means possible. E-mail them, IM them even call them if you don't understand something. Also it will put a face to the name b/c most of the time they won't know you by face, but when they are calculating grades, they will remember your face if you talk to them a lot & will give you a break b/c they like you or they think that you are a hard worker. Show up to class on time as well b/c sometimes the prof will lock you out of their classroom lol. I hope this helps you & good luck with your 1st yr. Take a deep breath, these are the best years of your life so relax, you'll do just fine :)
hey,
i think i can relate! i cried YES GUYS CRY, the first night. I didnt know anyone on my floor. My roomie was from Ecuador so there was that barrier too. I regret not going door to door and meeting people, i was slightly antisocial too b/c i am shy. if u see a cute guy/girl and they are sitting alone at lunch go say hi! be friends with whomever, everyone is looking for friends in college! join clubs and organizations, they do a lot of interaction great way to meet people.
I found someone from orientation and hung out with them, we went table to table talking to people and eventually had a nice little group going. first week is rough dont go home no matter what though, hang out with people KEEP YOUR DOOR OPEN! and just be nice to everyone friends will come fast. If anything just talk to ppl in classes ;)
Also roommate problems, look you have one year together. Learn to live with the person you dont have to like them, just live with them... but if u like them even better! dont argue over stupid things if ur roomie pisses you off, get out go find stuff to do! :) ummmm other things i regret... attend parties even if ur not into it. if u are invited go ahead if u want, they are fun u dont have to drink (theres more for everyone else that way) try to limit connection to family members and friends from home. homesickness sucks
Hopefully this helps good luck in school!! frosh year was a blast for me!
RWU '10
See teens, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... on page 13. Join clubs, associations, study groups (possibly start some: use the bulletinboard) etc. Approach people, and ask sensible questions, finding out what they're like. Ask the student's association.
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