I dont get it some days i HATE my life & every1 & everthing in it but then other times. .......
Question:
im 13
i have cut for 2 years & i HAVE NEVER said this b4 but i have drank rum b4 when i was super sad(but i will NEVER do it again
i dont no y i get like this second im happy & stuff then some1 will do something or say something & it will make me soo mad or sad i cant stand it & i will end up cutting
i HATE how my life go's most days
& it seams like most of the time i cut or am mad or sad cause of my family or friends but i LOVE them & stuff
& i cant find the other thing that makes me do it
& that bother me cause it makes me think that its all my family & friend
I JUST DONT NO WHAT 2 DO ANYMORE
i WANT 2 STOP cutting & stuff
but i CANT tell my parents cause they just wont get it
& i cant tell my friends cause they all think i have stoped &i also cut because of one of them
& i will NOT call a # or teel doctor
I just need some one on hear or something 2 talk 2 so
PLEZZZ HELP ME
i have the thing whare u can email me on my profile
CAN ANY1 PLEZZZHELP ME!!
Answers:
I don't want to see your scars and cuts. Do you like the attention you get from showing your cuts? Do you enjoy being the victom so you can get love? Do you see this? From what you are saying it seems like you don't know how to express your anger so you take it out on your self. You loose control of the situation and have no way out so you give up and cut your self or punish your self so you can some how feel sorry for yourself (sad but true) since no one around you seems to not care "right?". When you cut or get angry you are saying you have no control over your self. The poeple whom you say "make" you angry have control over you. I'm going to tell you how it is HOPING THIS MAKES YOU ANGRY ENOUGH TO STOP cutting. Remember this... No one can "make you "angry" unless you give them permission. And indeed you are giving those people whom You say "make" you angry your power or your permission to "make" you angry and cut. When you give away your power you are saying others and the environment have control over you. They have so much control over you that they can make you CUT your self!!! Imagine that? How can that happen?? Your own hand cuts its own body... And you choose to do it!!! Are you like this little puppet that is being controlled by the people around you. Is this what you want? If it is than you KNOW that it is your choice. Now you know that you can't blame it on the people around you or what ever happened to you. Because all along its up to you to choose to be angry or not be angry and deal with your feelings and being MATURE means you accept responsabilty for your actions. And if your choice is to cut, then accept responsability for it and stop blaming other for your actions. And if this is your choice...something is seriously deadly wrong with you and you SHOULD GO TO A DOCTOR SOON. And check you physically. Rule out this posibility by getting a physical and talk to a doctor to get yur thyroid gland checked and other possible areas. I honestly think that is not the case. I just think that some where along the line you were not taught how to express your feelings appropriately and you learned that your feelings were not important and the only way to get attentions was to hurt yourself. You can get out of this. God gave you a brain and you sound smart. Go to the library and check out self help books on anger management. If reading is not you cup of tea, listen to lectures on CD. If that doesn't help talk to a school councelor and ask her not to say anything. And ALWAYS TALK TO GOD he will alway listen to you even if it doesnt seem like it sometimes. Trust me he is. God is all about trusting him and believing in him even if you don't se or hear him. All you need is a little faith...Hope I'v made you think ... take care and God Bless You. P.S I'm not going to beg and plead to you to stop cutting because it your choice to stop cutting for yourself and NOT for me or your friends. God gives us the power of free will which means that we can do and choose what ever we want for ourselves. And it's our life and we can CHOOSE to do what ever we please with it.
You need to stop doing that!
I will let authorities know about this because you need help. Your parents are not paying attention to you and you need to be evaluated and heard!
I agree with Raye. You need help! This isn't normal. You sound manically depressed but keep in mind that I'm not a Dr. I went through depression for a long time and I still have to fight at it occasionally. I didn't want to tell anyone either because I was embarressed and felt like noone understood but there comes a time when you have to tell someone. People understand a lot more than you think. Depression is a very common problem and there is help. Tell someone! And that does not include just the people on the Answer page!
when your mad or sad you hurt yourself and it feels better because
1:you can focus on the physical pain insted of accepting emotional pain
2:it takes your mind away from what you where mad or sad at
dont do it babes next time they annoy you tell them and if your sad then cry if you cant cry atleast go to someone so you can cuddle them and let off some emotion nstead of rage and physical pain pleease stop hurting yourself on day you may go to deep and you wont like the out come of it or will scar pretty bad stop hurting yourself for the pain others are causing you you sound like your needing help and a shoulder to cry on hun seriously speak to a very close friend or someone you can trust and who will be there for you ok hope ive helped you
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