What should I do to quail anxiety in the morning/night?
Question:
Any ideas on how to end this misery?
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Coping with Anxiety
# Schedule a Time Out - A few minutes set aside for just you gives you time to step out of the situation long enough to regain perspective. One time out I like is stepping into a warm tub of water, sliding down into the water and letting the soothing comfort of a bubble bath "take me away" from the stressful situation.
# Give Yourself an Attitude Check - Take a few minutes to ask yourself, "Am I approaching life with a positive 'I can' attitude or with an attitude of negativism and defeat?" Taking an attitude check is as important to my mind as taking my pulse is to my body.
# Search for Hot Buttons - Hot Buttons are places in your life that stir up anxiety and seem to contribute to the stress in your life. Be on the lookout for the things that make you angry or frustrated immediately. These are your Hot Buttons. Once you find them, you can work through them by finding pressure points, the next item in our letting go checklist.
# Look for Revelation in Circumstances - Realize that the circumstances of life don't make you who you are; they reveal who you are. Ask yourself the tough question, "What about me is being revealed by my action/reaction to the circumstances in my life?" Be aware that the same destructive stress patterns in one person's life can be motivation to overcome difficult circumstances in the life of another person. Personal attitude could be the difference between a stressful situation and a learning one.
# Do a Control Check-Up - Take a look at who or what you trying to gain control over, and then remember this very basic truth: the only person you can have control over is yourself. I often try to gain control over circumstances and suddenly realize that the situation is a more difficult than I am able to handle. These moments become Aha! Moments: the moment you realize God may actually have the circumstances there for a reason. Are you working against God? If so, that will always be really stressful. Relieve anxiety by learning that He allows circumstances in your life for a reason. When you are able to do this, your stress will lessen considerably (Romans 8:28-29).
Have you identified the areas you need to work on? Good! After you know what they are, you can develop ways to overcome them, one by one. This includes identifying productive ways to cope with stress and trying to learn to incorporate them into your behavior. Here is a list of ways to cope with stress and anxiety that I can recommend from personal experience:
# Identify Your Unique Coping Mechanisms - Before you cope, you need to find ways that fit your personality and lifestyle. Recognize that some ways of coping -- such as by escaping the situation or running away from your problems -- are destructive in the long run. The only way to effectively coping with stress and anxiety is to face the causes of this stress.
# Change Your Focus - Get your mind off of the stress by changing your perspective on a given situation. Or go somewhere to change your surroundings.
# Feed Your Soul - Everyone has their very own Soul Food. Some of Soul Foods are music, the beauty of nature, inspiring stories, special relationships, a quiet place in the woods, or warmth from a gently lapping fire in the fireplace. God placed in each of us a desire for a unique something that touches and feeds our soul and draws us closer to Him so that we may regain our balance. You may need to take a vacation or getaway to regroup, dream, and allow God to refill the cup of your soul. If you remember to take a faith step toward God, be still (Psalm 46:10) and let God's presence surround you, you will really begin to relax and focus. My communication to God becomes a plea for His help. I pray "God help me to commit my stress and anxiety to You. Help me to be able to trust You to handle it. And please God, help me to accept Your way in my life.
you are a good candidate for a loving pet. i have a mini dachshund who is just like a stress sponge. when i hold her in my lap and pet her it is like she absorbs all your worries she is also very good at sensing when you are upset or in need. there are quite a few breeds that seem to have this gift. having the pet sleep with u would likely make you feel safe, secure and less likely to have anxiety.
Have you tried EFT? Very effective in taking away anxiety.
I was taught self hypnosis by my doctor used properly you can learn to relax
As soon as you get up in the morning, or before retiring in the evening bless the Lord and thank Him for giving you another day. Say your act of thanksgiving. Remember that God loves you very much and his love is faithful. Cast all your anxieties to Him and trust Him that he can do many beautiful miracles in your life everyday. Then listen to hymns for contemplation, or meditative and reflective music and read some passages from the Book of Psalms. Read and Pray Psalm 8 and 139 in your Holy Bible. Do this reading and praying for 9 consecutive days and relax with your selected sweet music. Be present to yourself and do not think of other things. Just be your real self. Put aside all anxieties and be with the Lord God. I will pray for you. Good luck!
See panic attacks, and anxiety, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... on pages 8, and 6.
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