EMERGENCY Help PLEASE ...IM SO INDECIDED?
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its much better to get things-off your chest, don't do it when your really angry, its best to take like a time out, think about what and how your going to say it, then say it, and get on with your life.life is to dang short to be worried what someone else will do or say, just get it off your chest in a nice grown up way, good luck
tell them how what ever is making you mad make you mad. They'll understand
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yes. you are lucky that this is the worst thing going on in your life. tell her and move on.
yes, but tell her lightly dont just say it all of a sudden! that'll only make u both mad then...
its an iffy question but we all know the right thing to do is to get your feelings out there.hope this helps
Yes tell ehr ull feel much much better and if she is really a good friend sheel understand! Itll get it off ur chest and u will be releived!!
Hope this helps,
Kristen
You're faced with two choices - say nothing and continue to feel this way or talk to her about it and work it out. Come up with a way to talk to her rationally and state your case as to why you're upset. If your friend is really a friend, she'll understand this anger and try to work on a solution.
Friends get angry at each other from time to time but that doesn't mean the friendship is over. You just need to communicate with each other, otherwise you'll just learn to resent her and you'll never patch things up.
The truth will set you free, however it could cause you some pain from time to time, but the truth is always the right answer.
tell her bottling things up is no good for you if she is a true fried she will understand and listen to what you have to say i am sure you will sort things out and continue being great friends
Just tell her how it made you a little fustrated. Be calm. Don't get all up in her face. Stand your ground.
Tell her but don't start a fight. Ask her to hear you out completely before saying anything. Explain why youre mad and that you dont want to end the friendship. Tell her you love her and you want to stay friends, and then have her tell her side of the story. Don't start a fight over it.
Its best to be honest. You'll feel a lot better about yourself and the situation.
It also largely depends on what you are mad about. If its something that is minor (she didn't call you back for a week, she flirts with your bf, etc), she may not realize she's making you mad and it could be resolved easily by letting her know.
If it is something major (you know she cheated with your bf, etc), the whole situation should be put out into light as soon as possible. Otherwise its going to continue to eat away at you. Honestly is always the best policy.
just tell her whatever you feel about her. if it is love you should probably let her know. the sooner the better. believe me. i had the same thing in my life before. too bad she was gone by the time i realized it.
Well I think you need to sit down wi your pal and explain to her what is going on in your head presently. Dont be mad back at her just explain it as calmly as you can. She may not even realise there is a problem and so cant fix it. She may not know how mad you are at her and be shocked etc etc and want to make thinsg right.
If you dont talk to her about it, it will build up into a mountain and you 2 may well fall out as it will seemto be worse than it is.
Tell her that you need to talk, that you dont wanna fall out with her or for it to come betwen your friendship but needs to be brought out in the open. Done the right way it shouldnt come in the way of this sport you are doig together. Remember though at first she may be embarrased and act as though she i mad at you, if this is the case give her time to say sorry and to come back to you.
Good luck and remember as best friends there is NOTHING that you can't talk about together. Its all in the way you go about it, tone, manner etc etc Im sure you will both feel better once you have spoken to her as no doubt she knows something is wrong she doesnt know what though so go ring her now and ask her to coem round. Just dont whatever you do is discuss it by text as that is the first way for it to get out of hand. text arguing is the worst as you forget there is a person at the end with real feelings and besides words can br taken out of context.
when you are calm, just tell her. if things get uncomfortable or you two start fighting, then just excuse yourself and say sorry. she shouldn't fight with you over feelings though. i hope things work out for you. good luck in your sport.
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