I have no friends, no job, live at home, and I just want to end it. Can anyone sympathize?
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I know how you feel, not a hundred percent because we are all different but I no somewhat. I suffer from depression and anxiety. I am on medication and maby you should go to the doctor as well. I often thought about ending my life because it seemed like the easy way out but it is anything but easy. The hardest thing to do in the world is live in it and I think that you should keep on living because what if something really good happens in your future and you leave this world and you never will have got to experiecn it? I hope that I am making sense. I also have a therapist who helps me thorough so much and she lets me say anything in the room and it is so nice to be able to talk to someone else who actually listens and I know that you may think that it is stupid to have a therapist but it really is helpful, trust me, but you do have to find one that you like because if you go to a ***** or an asshole like I have before it makes everything worse. Everything happens for a reason so right now life may be sucky for you but who knows maby tomorrow things will change. I know you may not want to go outside and I totally understand because I am the same way but what I do is just put on my ipod and it makes everything go away and plus you also may be feeling sad because not going outside makes you sad because you get your vitamin D from the sun and that helps with depression some how, my doctor told me that when I said I hate going outside. I hope that what I have said may have put a dent in how you think and that you will keep holding on and make the most of your life because good things will come your way but you cant just wait for them to fall in your lap, you also have to search a bit for them. I say you just go and apply to a couple of jobs and then go from there. Good luck and if you ever need to talk you can email me.
poor you :(
get a job = you'll meet people = you'll meet friend = you'll have fun = you'll have a life.
death is not the way brother, get out of the house, get a job, get a life.
go outside and find something fun to do
dude don't worry bout it. Try to go to school or sumthin. Get some hobbies that you can have fun with and you'll definatly make some freinds
No I really can't sympathize. Killing yourself is selfish and pointless. You still have a family and if you kill yourself you hurt a ton of people.
The best way to make friends is to go to places where there are people. Go to your community centre. Go to a jobsearch website and start a job. No matter where you start...the beginnings are always tough. Try stuff you've never done before. You'll be surprised at what you can do. Think of it this way, if you want to make a change, take drastic actions.
Been there and still doing it...although I can't find a job. small town
Utilize, practice your interpersonal skills and get out there and get a job, make some friends!!
well I will give you a friend that I know that lives with me
he has no job
he lives with me and he too feels like ending it
not all the time but he too feels when he is out everyone else is happy
If i can leave my phone or e mail i will write again if you are interested
im sorry that u feel that way but just go out and make a friend dont end it watever u do getting a job is a good way to meet people and then u will have friends and a career thats a start to a good life good luck
Get your azz out there and make an attempt at having a life, before you decise to snuff it.if you still want to, go ahead, but don't leave a mess for your parents to clean up.
Stop thinking about yourself only;-{ volunteer!
There are plenty of people worse off, with no homes.
You can do anything that you set your mind to, I know youv'e porbably heard that before but it seriously is true.And don't care what the other 'fun' people are doing.You know that your just gonna have less fun by staying inside watching them have fun, you need to find a hobbie. Im Heather and im your new friend.Hey you have a friend now.You can email me if you want to shorty_hughes2003@yahoo.com im 13 lol
taking your own life is never the way out. Just rethink your goals and find an easier way to reach them. As for sympathy.... I have alittle, having no friends,no job, and living under someone elses' roof can be stressful.
Well die then.go and end it all.obviously you have no will to live and not one of us can give you that. We cant force you to live and get out and see live and experience all that God has created for us rather it be good or bad. So ill tell you goodbye even though i have never met you and i will also say i wont be seeing you at the pearly gates...
there is no goal too far away. tell me what's yours. we can talk about it
Dude, I'm totally in the same boat. I hate my life, I'm deep in debt with no possiblity of getting out, stuck at home, no friends, sucky job. Take solace in knowing there are others out there in the same boat as we are.
You need to realize that you have no friends because you don't communicate or socialize, that even the longest ttrip starts with a single step, and that by feeling sorry for yourself you'll get nowhere. nobody knows whats beyond life, so go outside and make the most of it. (Other people having fun shouldn't stop you from having fun too. Go find a hobby such as oorigami, cooking, playing an instrument, it doesn't really matter. Stop sulking. That will only make things worse.)
I agree with getting a job - it will get you out of the house and give you a sense of accomplishment! Or you could go back to school and get a good education, i.e. college or a trade. That will also help to achieve the same goals of meeting other people, help you to make friends and give you the skills to get a great job and give you confidence in yourself that you can achieve whatever you want in life!
you need to get hold of your self and really think about it there is more in life than saying that you need to get out and about and meet people you will get to like it i was was like that now i am happy.
killing yourself just makes your whole family like how you are. if you go to school or get a job you will meet people and make friends. just go out friday and saturday nights and try and meet some people and make friends.
nope. i think a lot of people feel the same way. i have only one friend and she lives out of state. i am self employeed whick makes me poor. but then i can not keep a job so what is the use of getting one. and living at home is not that bad. at least mom and dad pays the bills. cheer up you are not alone. i know a guy he has 2 kids and is 38 and lives with him mom and dad. he works off and on. he does not have any friends either. i don't like to have friends they are a bother and can get on my nerves pretty fast. i rather stick to myself. i have no regrets either. why don't you start off working part time somewhere. it can help make you feel better. what is 4 hours a day working. then you can meet someone to hang with.
Woah.
Thats a heavy question. But think about it, putting yourself away would only react a chain of horrible stuff. like think of all the people that would get hurt, like your family and such. theres no point bringing people down with you, anyone can turn their life around. get a job and after time that will basically deteriorate your other problems.
Dont give up. Committing suicide is not the right way out. If you try it means you're a coward and you're not responsible or grateful. Don't give up just continue your life with some drastic changes that need to be secured. Go outside and explore the world. Have FUN!
Yes, I can sympathize. I feel like total crap today. And I have friends but I'm so damn anti-social that they probably don't think I care anymore. And don't even suggest me talking on the phone with them because I never have anything good to say.
Life for me really stinks at the moment. I don't know when it'll turn around either. :/
No don't do it. There are so many people in the world who are WAY worse than you. Be grateful that your not living in a cardboard box in an alley. I remember when I was depressed and many people pissed at me. I just wanted to die but I was too scared. A couple days later, I decided to get myself out of my misery and set things right. Now, things are better. Everythings not the way it use to be, but I'm still happy because I know that things will get better for me. Things will get better for you too. They have to. Even thought you feel like no one cares, they do.
Any goals worth having will not happen over night. Start by looking for work that will help you on your way to achieving that goal and the rest should follow. Good luck.
Im sorry I can not sympathize with you. You choose to not have friends, you choose not to work and to live at home. You say you have a goal how do you think you will ever reach it if you don't live? By living I mean get out find a job make friends and get your own place. Those should be the only goals that you are working towards right now. As for committing sucide well it is an end for you but a beginning for the ones you leave behind. The beginning of wondering why, what could they have done and years of hurt, anger and sadness all because you couldn't hack it. Get real. I know what a b i t c h that I am but you know what. I have been on my own since I was 16years old, I have been raped, I have been homeless, in an abusive relationship, drug addict, you name it and I can just about guarantee I have been there done that and have the scars to prove it and you know what I am still here. I am now in my very first home that I bought, have a wonderful husband, great job, and have been clean for 14years. So sympathy no.
You sound like me except I have a job I hate. I sympathize. I used to think like that all the time until I realized only I can change my life around. It is very hard work. I am still nowhere near where I want to be. But life can be livable. If you ever want to talk email me. I am always online and a good listener. Alot of the time I just want to end it to, but sometimes my will to live is stronger. I sense yours is right now otherwise you wouldn't being trying to get attention this way. (I don't mean that in a bad way because I ask a lot of questions like this on here or did.) Hope you feel better.
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