I still find it hard to forget this woman next door who used to do?


Question:
terrible things to me, spreading malicious gossip, watching me all the time come in and out the house watching my kids. smashing windows her fella lots of evil things, the thing is they used to put on a nice act to people it made ,me sick i know i have to forgive but forgetting is hard sometimes

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Well the key words you used here is "used to" If she doesnt live next door anymore than just chalk it up to the fact that she is a crazy Catch U Next Tuesdayif you know what I mean. By harboring all these feelings toard her you are making it your problem. Why would you want her to be your problem? So just try to let it go. Shes gone. Sounds like you no longer have anything to worry about.
This so called woman should be told how you feel. Confront her about it what have you got to lose? You cannot spend the rest of your life being miserable otherwise that means shes won.

Confront the situation and be brave.
What goes around comes around. It's not your burden to determine her judgment. Justice will be served. Go on and enjoy life. Leave her to karma.
when you think about her do something positive for yourself to distract you. turn it into something good and it will be easier for you to forgive the pathetic twit.
Lots of people are miserable in life...sometimes they act out for reasons unknown.Maybe she needed friends,maybe she was jealous of your good home and family.sounds like she wanted attention.Maybe sit down and talk to her sometime,to see what's going on with her...forgiving is hard...and it clutters our life sometimes...get on with yours and try to forget about it.
do you not have any friends or family to give them a serious beating. you can hire people to break a few limbs as well.
Not, it has to be pointed out, any form of question.
Forget karma, the Balance of Life, Yin and Yang...

You need to take control of this situation and take back what she took from you.

But be as confident as you can be if you face her. If she is as bad as you said she is, she will have no conscience about it and might try to browbeat you down further...

Maybe you need to see a counsellor and undertake some Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to put this terrible past behind you and move on with your life...

Good Luck in the future...
Yes there are some evil people about ,,,dont let them grind you down there the misfits,,,keep that chin up ,,,,ok,,,your much better than them,,,,,
lol
It sounds as if this woman has moved away now...If she has..then just try to put her to the back of your mind. It might help to tell yourself that she is dead.
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