What would you do if.??
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if that person hasnt been charged, even without the help of your family I would do it, to prove not just your parents but everyone else that is so narrow minded that you were not at fault.
It is stupid when parents act that way, if that ever happens to a person I love, I would want to kill the person that did it, I would give all my love to the victim; yes! victim, cause who asks to be molested?? when you say u were molested is cause you didnt ask.
I would agree with them if you had said, my parents
blame me cause I had sex and got pregnant, but no, it is stupid the way they are acting. I cant believe someone's parents get angry at the victim instead at the stupid idiot that did it.
by the way, your parents need a good whack on the head
ahhh. that would hurt I think I would be really depressed. that would be horrible
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See a psychologist, seek whatever legal action possible, and reach out to a family member you can trust. There should also be people at your school like counselors or a teacher you know that you can talk to, if needed. Good luck.
Disown them!!...
talk to your school counselor.find someone to confide in.I have no idea how old you are, but just know that they are wrong and they probably come from a generation were everyone believed such things. Just because they think it, doesn't make it true.
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i would be hurt, but then i would go to someone who would listen and i wouldnt give up until someone heard me. have you really sit down and just talk to them about this? i dont know your age, but if your under age then for sure they know that no matter what who ever it was they need to turn him in or her . hope this works out for you. good luck.
I would speak to someone outside of home. may be at school its not ur fault someone is a sick freak
I only hope that your parents have not blamed you for such an atrocious act...
I think if my parents blamed me for something like that I would seek therapy to figure out the appropriate way to approach my parents. As children we rely on our parents to protect us and stand by our side. When something like what you mentioned happens, I think I would feel betrayed and lost. And lonely. I would suggest to seek professional help and figure out how to handle your parents. They should by no means blame you for something so awful. Being molested and being a molester are two different things, and if you're being molested than you should seek help any way just to deal with that trauma.
Hope this helps in some small way.
Good luck.
I would be pretty devastated and need time to think. Then I'd realize that just because two people are your parents does not make them authorities on all of life's subjects and that this one they are not helpful or supportive at all. In fact, trying to change their opinions or beliefs about molestation would very likely be counter-productive to myself. I would begin looking for Support Groups near my home to have a safe and educated input from others and also go to psychological counseling and explain my parents' viewpoint and how best to deal with it so I can move ahead with my own healing.
Your parents are probably blaming you because they are ashamed they did not prevent it or did not know it was occurring. They are not providing the support you desperately need at this time in your life. Please call the National Sexual Assault Hotline at 1.800.656.HOPE. Their trained counselors will be able to help you figure out how to handle your parents.
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