How Do I keep myself from committing suicide on the day that my mother dies ?
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But she will still be with you in spirit, ask her to prove it when she is gone. That way you have something to stay here for. It would hurt her to think you are hurting/
Um why? Your mother's wish is for you to live and carry on the legacy not to end it with her.
It is ok ...in 5 days you are going to die anyways.
seriously you need to get help from a professional right now if you are thinking these thoughts.That is how you avid it.
I feel that way too. It's horrible.
She wouldn't want you to do that though, and maybe you would be the only person keeping her alive in spirit because you love her so much.
dont.i doubt your mother would want you to do that to yourself.yes it's hard i know.but as a christian i believe God will only give us what we can handle.if you pray,stay strong,and talk to her when she passes you'll be ok.she will never die as long as she is in your heart.
Do u really think she'd WANT you to give up everything just to be with her? >:(
Might as well bring everyone else with ya against their will how bout that >:(
I know what you mean. My father left when I was young and my stepfather died, so it has always been just me and her. I don't think I would kill myself if she died, but I don't know if I would be able to deal with it. I just can't imagine living without her.
Talk to someone about this. Start with your mother, tell her how you feel.
It's called carrying on, which is what you do when a loved one dies. You keep carrying the torch for them. You live your life to make them proud of you.
Your mother is living her life as fully as she can. She's had her babies (you) she's seen things and experienced things that she wants you to live and experience. Her dreams of your life will help her cross over when that time comes. You don't want her to worry about you, do you?
The babies that you have, you'll surround them with the love that your mother gives to you. You pass that love down from generation to generation and with that love you also take the tales that brought that love about.
That's what we do when a loved one leaves, especially a mother.
I honestly dont' think anyone here may be able to assist you in the way that you feel, it may be worth your time to go and speak with someone who is impartial and wont judge you or what you have to say. There are a lot of free helplines that you can call that have someone on the other end of the phone to whom you don't know and will be confidential and discreet. They may help you
First, you know that your mother would never want you to do such a thing. Second, everyone has a time to live and a time to die. It's all a part of the life cycle. She will have lived her life and you should do the same without doing something to shorten it. Of course we grieve and hurt if we lose someone we love. But no one can go through life without experiencing this. I cried everyday for over 6 months when I lost my mother. The tears were slowly replaced with beautiful, comforting thoughts of our lives together. I remember her now with love and laughter, which is exactly what she would want. If your mom is well now, cherish every minute with her. If you're having thoughts about this, why not talk to your mom about it? I'm sure she'll have some wonderful words of wisdom for you.
I understad how you you feel, I never had a dad and my mom and me have been together for 32 years. She helps me and I help her and even though we fight I can not comprehend life without her. She is getting older and I can see it and it makes me so sad. I wish I had more money or just had money to make her life better like the little things. I understand how you feel. I cry sometimes to just let it out.
Think of how much your mother loves you. Think of all she's done for you and why. She wants you to have a happy successful life. She wants you to live on even when she isnt able. When she does leave she'll want you be able to carry on, be strong and think of her peacefully and loveingly.
Please don't do that...I almost did once, and I am so glad I didn't. If and when that day comes, just cry it out, talk to someone close about what you're feeling, and you should be fine. As long as you talk about it, and don't just bottle your emotions up inside, then you shouldn't experience any suicidal thoughts. (Or at least, I don't)
First I want to tell you that these feelings are normal if this is the first time you think of your mothers death. Noone wants to loose the person that loves them most and I know I was scared out of my mind when I first started having thoughts of what I would do if/when my mother died. As you get older you realize that you will someday leave your children just like she left you and that its a natural process of life. Think about it, if your mother would have taken her life when her mother died...where would you be? Loosing your mother must be devestating and no doubt about it when she does pass away you will be in a great deal of pain. Good news is that she is now healthy and you are just wondering "what if..." this would be a good time to explore your feelings and talk to a professional who can guide you.
Darling, i understand you because i had lost my mother as well,but i believe that you're seriously depressed.
I think you have to go urgently to a emergency ward and ask for help .
Everything will be ok with the time,honey. But take care of you now.
Please feel free of mail me if you want to talk.
Be strong for the memory of your mum!!.
Love.
Kate.
It sounds like you have an abnormal attachment to your mom.
You could be too dependent on her. Do you live with your mother? I don't wanna jump to conclusions but you didn't give a whole lot of detail. If you live with your mother try moving to another state. Let's say at least 1500 miles away.
You will still love your mom, you'll still worry about her but you won't feel that you are so dependent on her that you could commit suicide at the thought of her leaving you. I'm serious, this will work.
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