How Can I Feel Pretty, Confident and Good About Myself?
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I'am sure you can't look that bad to hide it all, just be yourself, dress for your age, nice clothes, and use some makeup and primp yourself, you will feel better. You may be surprised at what happens, just give it a try.
you should say "hey *****" if you don't like me then why are you staring at me like i'm famous!! it'll make them go crazy....&& have fun...take time off to actually go out and party like a rockstar=)
First find out exactly what you think your problem is. If you think your too fat, exercise and eat right and lose weight. Once you start to lose the weight you will feel better about yourself. Trust me, the first 10 lbs that come off will make u feel like your on top of the world. It has turned my life around and i walk with a little spring in my step now.
Does anyone tell you that your not pretty or that your fat? Usually when people say something that they dont think can be hurtful can really dig deep into your skin .
If you dont think your pretty, take pictures on a digital camera and take picturtes of your self that make you feel good about yourself. I do that, and i post the pictures on my wall as motivation for when i am feeling sad or w/e. See if it helps hun. :)
stop worry about other people. People are a**holes and judge people before they meet them. It sucks but its life.
Well, it definitely sounds like you have some self-esteem issues. If you are so uncomfortable that you can't leave the house, then I would seriously suggest talking to a therapist. Beyond that, look at yourself in the mirror and note the things you LIKE about yourself. Stay away from the negative stuff. If you say, "I'm ugly" enough, you believe it. Same goes for "Hey, I'm actually pretty." or "I have really pretty eyes." Even "plain" girls can be beautiful if they have the attitude that they are.
Other than that, go talk to a therapist.
ok me myself has not expireinced this ..but however...everyone sometimes feels this...itsa a paranoia thing...everyone thinks it !but if your really insecure about your body or the way you look or whatever you start today and get up and just go for a walk everyday..it wil make you feel better and speed your metabolism..i knew a girl that lost a lot of weight with just sticking to the basics...commit to it...you can do it! hope this helps xxxxx
Break free. I used to have the same problem until a year ago... hell, even Cher was shy when she was young. Anyway I realised it was the people around me that caused me that trouble, they pulled me down constantly. So I broke free, I fought with my friends until they finally walked away from me. I got myself a bunch of new friends and now I feel much better about myself. Keep in mind that you're unique, that you have a special talent, and exploit it. You're worth it.
tell yourself you are. even if you do belive it. you are what you think. look to yourself for the answer.
Seek professional help because your problem comes from something deeper going on.
Make yourself pretty, Then when you see it others will too.
First of all, remember that beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What some find attractive, another may not. If we all looked the same, it would be a dull and boring world. Be proud of who you are. Second, do things that you enjoy...whether it's sports or crafts or whatever, you will find that when you are having a good time at what you are doing, you look happy and content and that is more attractive than to look unhappy and irritable! Third, don't worry about what other people think so much, ya never know-- they might be looking at you because they think you are pretty!! :)
dont put pressure on urself lots of ppl even myself feel like this time to time all u have to do is learn how to except ur flaws, we all have them and should learn how to live with them
Okay what I am about to tell you is going to sound weird but it worked for me. Two words: Belly Dance.
At the beginning of my school year (8th grade) I was depressed/no confidence/and thought I was ugly and I often hid in my room. My step mom put me in belly dancing where I met all these really nice girls my age and all had the same problem. I don't hide anymore and now when I look in the mirror I see myself not 'model hot' but pretty which is good enough for me.
I would not suggest a therapist because (I don't know about you but) they freak me out and make me just want to hide even more.
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