Do I have mental problem?
Question:
I have been frustrated many times by girls.
I have cried for three girls. Because disappointment.
I would do anything for computer games. I have ever walked for three miles for only to buy computer game CD Counter-Strikes. Better word I cannot live without computer games.
For the third time I'd cried for woman I have ever felt of committing suicide but I didn't manage because I feared of pain.
I don't like to socialize with people.
I'm embarrassed to admit like this but nobody knows me.
Please give a good advice. If you don't I will become more mentally severe.
Answers:
First, please do not threaten people to do what you want. This guarantees responses to make you feel very bad.
Second, it sounds as tho you have taken refuge in computer games because you have failed in a few relationships. This is common.
At least you are trying to find out if you need help.
No one is worth taking your own life.
If you do not get control of your life, you will never accomplish any of the dreams you have. Playing games is only a temporary measure in which you have a little bit of control.
In games, you are the decision maker and can put off real life decisions. If this goes on too long, you will lose the ability to do anything for yourself. Then someone else will have to decide everything for you. This is not a good life to have.
For people to know you, you have to be willing to open yourself up and be hurt. It is very hard at first, but soon you will realize that most people don't even realize they have hurt you as they are more worried about being hurt themselves.
Finding a good therapist and talking about everything is a good start. Realizing you are no different from anyone else in that you do not want to hurt will open up a lot of places for you to explore.
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this can be anxiety disorder
or you may be antisocial
You just need to mature a little more thats all. It will change.
ur just like me but little less...lol...na but try workin ur skill on the computer online chatting i'm in the same postion like u ma friend girls are just humains wen member men are in charge dont ever cry ova a girl again i'm telling u i did too once...got over her though...myspace ma friend good communication tool talk to girls kindly until u get them hooked i did it and now i can say i can play sum game. mainly true true lie it may help. wouldnt mind playin halo now..
Well if you have to ask if you have a mental problem you probably do. Put down the computer games and go get laid.
don't be ashamed, you're just a gay computer geek.
find somebody that's like you by joining an on-line computer geek dating service.
www.computerlove.com
You have to decide for yourself whether or not you have a mental problem. But I can tell you with full confidence, that you will never meet a girl until you get away from the computer and go meet them.
I'm concerned that you felt like committing suicide. Any thoughts of suicide need to be taken seriously and should not be ignored. Help is available. I recommend that you call 1-800-SUICIDE and tell them more about how you are feeling. Even if you are not planning to hurt yourself, they can help you work through your feelings. They can help you determine what you can do to help you become healthy. They may be able to connect you to some mental health professionals in your area.
Please call...Life is worth it. 1-800-SUICIDE.
Are you young and impressionable? Do you prefer to be around guys than girls? I kinda get the feeling that you may need way bit more time to grow up or your partial to guys. I hate to say this but have you ever thought you may have gay feelings? I know, awful thing to say but It is hard to figure you out. You need to get some therapy to help you.
No, I think you are introverted and that is ok.
Look for others like you!
Well im pretty much the same way. Ive always loved PC games they take up most of my time.But i wouldnt call me Anti-Social due to the fact that i talk to a large community of people That i know all over the world. With the Girl thing been there done that you just get over it.Back to the Base Question "do you have a mental problem" No i would say that you have a Hobby that is very time consuming and easily accessable.And those to pretty much make it look like your addicted.Oh and try and Get into a clan on Counter-Strike,meet people that like to do what you do.
talk to a therapist if yo want serious answers.
Please don't give up on yourself! I have several friends who spend more time playing computer games than being social and they are happy that way. Life is about the *pursuit* of happiness, not waiting for happiness to jump in your lap.
You don't sound like you have mental problems, just emotional problems. This is much better because it is easier to remedy. The best thing is to see a counselor or call a free help line, especially if you are suicidal.
I wonder how old you are? If you are young, that is even better because you have limited experience and reason to still be shy.
What you should know is that the girls you have been disappointed by probably thought you cared more about games then them. If you put as much time, thought, and confidence as you have for computer games into social settings and women, you will feel better im sure.
I will get straight to the point. If there is a time in your life where one thing you focus on negatively affects other aspects of your life,then yes there is a problem. Does it mean you are mental..that depends on allot of factors. If you are truly looking for help email me and I will point you in the right direction (IE therapist in your area)
Best of luck
That really depends how old you are, IMO. For a teenage boy, then probably not. A grown man, I might consider it. But if you feel that you do have a mental issue, contact a psychologist to help you out. The only thing I'm really worried about is when you mention that you almost committed suicide. If you feel that way frequently, I encourage you to get a counselor\psychologist.
don't listen to the rude people on here... there's nothing wrong with you ... but you should probably try to get into something other than just computer games... try hockey or join a band... whatever it is it will help you to become more confident... then you'll attract a nice girl that won't break your heart... how old are you?... if you're dating young girls (like if you're a teenager) .. then just know that they tend to break hearts... it's how you learn what you want later in life ... you need to date around a bit before you find the perfect girl anyway... just consider it practice dating... i know that it hurts really bad to have your heart broken but just know that if you didn't break it off with the wrong girl that you'd never find the right one!
i've had a lot of heartbreak in my life but it all led up to finding my soul mate... my favorite person .. my husband... someday you'll be some girls favorite person... don't give up before you get the greatest gift of all!
you sound like a great person... don't worry about having a hard time socializing ... everyone does... it's just that some have had more practice ... the only way to get better is to practice... force yourself to go beyond the limits that you've set for yourself and make some friends... i used to be super shy... but when i finally got up the guts to make some friends i found out that it's not that hard .. you'll mess up a few times... but just laugh it off and don't let any jerks get to you...
best wishes... you're fine!!
You need to speak with someone qualified to examine you and your behaivor. Seek help - I'm serious
You have self-esteem issues and low confidence. You have to ask youself, why don't you like to socialize with people? If your just a loner by choice, and like being alone, theres nothing wrong with that... if not you might have social anxiety. There is, however, something wrong with suicyde (yahoo wont let me spell correctly). You should talk with a therapist about your malfunctions... it would help you out a lot. But as far as some severe mental illness, no... you dont have anything wrong with you.
It sounds like you have a social phobia. You need to put away the computer games and get out around people. See a therapist
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