Does anyone else feel CURSED???
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I'm not at all religious, but i feel that i'm cursed or that life has it in for me. I have depression for about a 1 year and i just have started medication for it.
It seems like everything bad is happening to me and no one else and honestly i don't know if i could get through another bad blow.
I do realise that because i'm depressed, negative things that happen to me are major blows whilst the normal person just deals with it.
I just think maybe i am destined to be unhappy , does anyone else feel this way?? Do i think i'm cursed???
The letters in my full name (first middle and surname) equate to 666 , do you think this has anything to do with me being cursed?
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This feeling is only in your head, there are no such thing as curses and the only reason you feel this way is because in your mind you believe in curses, it is only a coincidence that you name adds up to 666 nothing more. Tell yourself you don't believe in curses and you will feel better because they don't exist.
I felt cursed when I had a nightmare during Jan. 1,2006 but it was gone during the 1st day of 2007
well the 666 part is really creepy. I would cahnge my name haha. But no everyone has bad luck and over 75 percent of people are depressed. My opinion people create their own bad luck and you create good lucj also known as karma. But you think your cursed. I don't think im cursed I think I have bad karma. i have cheated on three of my boyfriends hows that sound for you. Number three was just tonight. I definitely have bad karma not a curse
no, but you are enabling the bad things happening to you by giving them value in your life.
your reading into it way to much.
I'm on equivalent to prozac. yea depression sucks.i just don't want to understand it .no one else does. and not mine thats for *** sure !
but i know it is and it's me .i hold no one at fault. especialy not myself.
it just is.so i enjoy what i can.simple but efective.
I FEEL THE SAME WAY IF IT WAS,NT FOR BAD LUCK I,D HAVE NO LUCK AT ALL FOR A YEAR NOW
I AM RIGHT KNOW BORDER LINE HOMELESS LOST MY HOUSE ,MY CAR ALMOST DIED MY KIDS ARE BEING MEAN TO ME LOST MY JOB CAUSE I GOT HURT MY PLACE OF WORK REFUSES TO HELP LAWYERS WONT GO UP AGAINST PRIVET INSURANCE COM. MY HUSBAND WONT LET ME HAVE MY BLOOD PREASURE MEDS IF HE WOULD I WOULD JUST GO TO SLEEP FORE EVER CANT SLEEP AND MY GRANDSON GOT MOLESDED HES 8 THE STANKHOLE IS 51
"I have depression for about a 1 year and i just have started medication for it."
Give your meds time to work Sweetie. Most anti-depressants take 4-6 weeks to kick in, although you should notice symptoms alleviating before then. Best wishes. - Bunny
P.S. There's probably millions walking around with those dreaded numbers attributed to their name. But only if you believe in that stuff, ie numerology. If it's panic-ing you, maybe it's not such a good thing to believe in. Find happy, positive things to dwell on and believe in, okay?
I had the same problem(s) until my depression was under control. The answer if you want to know the truth, and I speak from experience, is that you are creating your own problems and consequently it is up to you to solve them. I used to feel cursed as well and your name equaling "666" has nothing to do with it. Your problem, which is very common during active depression, is that your thought(s) are poweful energies. When you're unhappy it is unlikely that others will be happy around you. I am reminded of something that I saw and read in, "The Secret," and it was and is so true. Our thoughts can create, and solve, our own problems. When I was thinking negatively, no one wanted to be around me. When I started thinking more positively, then others wanted to be around me and I was no longer "cursed." My first suggestion is allow the medication time to work on your mood and my second suggestion is to go through therapy to work out your issues. What you have to learn, and you can learn it in therapy, is how to be your own best friend and how to be your own hero. Having a 17% best answer rating and being a top contributer is no coincidence. Others want to be my friend because I am already my own best friend and I like myself, so I inspire others to like who they are. You've taken some positive steps and you're on the right track. Log onto "The Secret" website and pay the $4.95 to watch the movie. It's worth every penny and could well be life changing as it was for me. Best of luck!
dont feel cursed. You are just scared. Do what you need to do in a good way, because it is in you. You will find happiness in a nice church and find your way to God. Dont let stupid numbers make your future I do not need money
I would say it like this, a black line was drawn on me.I come from a long line of troubled people,I am troubled.I will always carry this burden.The stars do not shine for me and the Sun has set long ago.
you could be in midst of a war and have no limbs as they were all blown off, no food, no house, and all tyour friends and family could be dead. thats being cursed...having depression for a year is like a lollypop for a child;P
yeah i know how you feel when everything bad starts happening you feel like you r you think things cant get no worse and they do
I suffered from clinical depression for30 years. the worst thing was that I knew I was heading for a bad spell, but could do nothing about it. feeling "curses" was one of my little demons. there are a lot of things one can try, and different things help different folk. My help came in the form of Rieki. It has changed my whole out look on life. Finding the right practitioner can be tricky but why not have a go. It made sense of it all for me.
firstly, how do the letters in your name come to being 666? i don't get how that works - plus that sounds like you are taking things just that bit too deeply, or are paranoid, i dunno. i know how it feels - i often feel that i am destined to be unhappy, and i do feel like i get all the bad luck. but i think i'm also suffering from depression, and i think that is the main cause of feeling this way. although we may feel it, i don't think we are actually cursed.
feel free to email me if you want to talk to someone who feels equally hopeless!
Your are not cursed. You are just having some problems in your life right now. We all have them from time to time.
You just need to have a chat with yourself and work out how you are going to deal with whatever is making you feel unstable.
If it's a person...pull away from them.
If it's money worries...seek help.
Only you can really help yourself before you become dependent on the medication.
I was born on Friday 13Th April with a heart murmur, cross eyes and bronchitis. Every Christmas i remember as a child i was always ill. When i was 18yo i had an accident which forced me to use a wheel chair for 15 months and now i have HIV, epilepsy, depression and my heart murmur is playing up again. So the answer to your question is yes i do feel cursed.
Even though you are not religious try reading the book of Job in the bible - he suffered sudden disasters after living a blessed life, and felt he was cursed, but eventually God granted him back his happy life again. It is great to read if you feel lonely in your depression, to hear someone who gives voice to his misery in such descriptive words.
After this, Job opened his mouth and cursed the day of his birth. 2 He said:
3 "May the day of my birth perish,
and the night it was said, 'A boy is born!'
4 That day—may it turn to darkness;
may God above not care about it;
may no light shine upon it.
5 May darkness and deep shadow [a] claim it once more;
may a cloud settle over it;
may blackness overwhelm its light.
6 That night—may thick darkness seize it;
may it not be included among the days of the year
nor be entered in any of the months.
7 May that night be barren;
may no shout of joy be heard in it.
8 May those who curse days [b] curse that day,
those who are ready to rouse Leviathan.
9 May its morning stars become dark;
may it wait for daylight in vain
and not see the first rays of dawn,
10 for it did not shut the doors of the womb on me
to hide trouble from my eyes.
11 "Why did I not perish at birth,
and die as I came from the womb?
12 Why were there knees to receive me
and breasts that I might be nursed?
13 For now I would be lying down in peace;
I would be asleep and at rest
14 with kings and counselors of the earth,
who built for themselves places now lying in ruins,
15 with rulers who had gold,
who filled their houses with silver.
16 Or why was I not hidden in the ground like a stillborn child,
like an infant who never saw the light of day?
17 There the wicked cease from turmoil,
and there the weary are at rest.
18 Captives also enjoy their ease;
they no longer hear the slave driver's shout.
19 The small and the great are there,
and the slave is freed from his master.
20 "Why is light given to those in misery,
and life to the bitter of soul,
21 to those who long for death that does not come,
who search for it more than for hidden treasure,
22 who are filled with gladness
and rejoice when they reach the grave?
23 Why is life given to a man
whose way is hidden,
whom God has hedged in?
24 For sighing comes to me instead of food;
my groans pour out like water.
25 What I feared has come upon me;
what I dreaded has happened to me.
26 I have no peace, no quietness;
I have no rest, but only turmoil."
Have you ever done black magic? Or has anyone done black magic on you? If so you could have one or more unwanted spirits with you. A (witch doctor) ?? if that's what you call them could help you with this. Unfortunately most of them are phonies that take your money and tell you crap. The best ones will most likely live up the valley in a small village and will only except donations. Good luck.
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