Question:
How does one solve problems or hurt feellings with someone else in a 25 year relationship that has professed firmly that they never or rarely make any mistakes in the relationship it is the partner that has the problem and he will be the one to try to deal with it rationally. And if they don't want to then he will be the bigger person by being silent until the other person comes to their senses. Loving, firm, pleading, yelling, psycho-therapy and every other stategy has been used. the person insists that he will sometimes but rarely apologize for me getting hurt not that he hurt me. This is a person who is very intelligent and is a withdrawn person to the outside but not to me, He has anxiety about ever being wrong and failing in anything and everything, For this reason tries nothing unless he feels he can succeed at it. Does not have a lot of feelings and feels that he thinks of others a lot but rarely does at least without thinking of himself first. Don't get me wrong he is amazing
Answers:
okay first hun, this isnt a question. it has nothing for me to answer.
second, it sound to me like he might be a physiological abuser. does he do that?
third, if you have tried everything. why are you too still together? isn't that something to try....not trying to be rude at all. but serious this guy sound like he is making you miserable.
well i am sorry i couldn't answer more, but i need more info.
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