How do i love myself?


Question:
Ok so i dont have a lot of confidence, my counseller tells me i have to learn to love myself.

I find this very exctiting but how do i?

So im here sitting in a room on my iwn saying how do i love myself how can i phisically start?

Answers:
What do you mean "make love with yourself?"
study the teachings of Ramtha
I think the first thing you have to do is accept yourself for who you are and accept the things you cannot change. If there are things about yourself that you can change...do it. I know it sounds simple to say but it's true and once you've conquered this, your confidence will soar. Good luck.
firstly develop self confidence and then see everything with love love to each (human being or animal or anything in the world) then love yourself
well loving yourself is, tricky. you may need to physically and mentally show your body that you love it. ( physically ) try excercizing or buy some cute clothes or eat right, thats a good place to start. ( meantally ) tell your mind that you can do things to make you feel great.
Not physically love yourself,haha, goofy.
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Pick a feature on you that you like, and turn it into love. Pick another part and like turn it into love. If you like your eyes color, you love the way your eyebrows frame them. If you love those pants, you'll like your rear end in them. Then you'll like your rear in other clothing, until you find a perfect rear end under any clothing. Then you love your legs and the fact that they make your feet move, your feet may look funny, but love the purpose that they serve.
Well, try to treat yourself in the way you would like others to be treating you or in the way you treat others, the one that seems to you more loving.
For example, treat yourself the same way you would think of giving someone a present.
if you really mean it what you said there are lot of methods to start yourself admiring and loving...first of all do understand that you are also a beautiful creation by almighty god and you are as equal as each and every human beng..you have the right to live, right to sing as you like, you have the freedom to eat wht you like..you can dream..you can love.you can play..and think of other default privilages you have...its true that have all of us have it..but the difference is we are not able to realize those fortunes as fortunes. most of the time.

.Have you ever imagined thousands of people who are not able to buy even a single peice of bread just before you start eating..? then you could realize that how lucky tou are..

take a deep breath..pray god..try to read some motivational books.try .practising self hypnosys...ultimately love yourself and your sorroundings..enjoy the life..
cheers..!
Loving is a commitment that you will always take care of yourself and and always putting yourself last.
I always say you have to learn to seduce yourself; you light candles, you make a great dinner for just you b/c you deserve it; you rent a great movie that you always wanted to see etc; but society is now me me me ; sometimes, we have to stop looking in the mirror every day and say it is only about me b/c it is not; you can help others and that makes you feel good; leave flowers at a senior center; stop at a dog shelter and volunteer; walk a dog , raise money for a cause; visit a library, read a book, sit by the shore and just watch life and how wonderful everything is ; the seagulls, the birds, lie on your back and look up at the puffy clouds in their splendor; plant a tree; a garden and tend to it and watch it grow; help an elderly neighbor ; get to know them; love isn't physical; it is the feeling inside; fill yourself up with goodness that you can show to others and then ultimately to you; don't let people use your life as a door mat and don't let anyone steal your thunder; there is only one of you , no other; you will never pass this road again; make every day, hour , minute count b/c they do ; live a great life and that is loving yourself. Help less fortunate and that is loving yourself; do things just to help or put a smile, open a door, be kind when least expected; buy a cup of coffee for the person behind you in line; etc etc ; so much to fill you up with love only than being selfish individuals; if you don't tend a garden you get weeds; if you don't look to do more in life than just satisfy you ; you get lost,lonely and feel unloved; the greatest of all gifts is love ; the love within you to give; the more you give the more you get back by knowing you are a great lover of life and mankind.
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