Repetitive images flashing through mind?
Question:
Can someone pls shed some light - what is this and how do i help my husband.
Answers:
Hi Leen. This is the first time I hear something like this. After reading it I made some theories. 1. The fist one, is that this person can be from your husband past, something in his childhood that happened and he did not solve. It could be post-traumatic stress. Some situation that was traumatic and it manifests again. 2. The second explanation is similar, only that this person did not show in his childhood but in his past life. 3. The last one, is that it can be an entity attached to your husband aura. A spirit of a dead person that did not get to the other world. Whatever theory, I think was is happening to your husband could be chemical: an unbalance in brain neurotrasmiter, this is why he gets the electric buzz. I am not a doctor, only a person that has read a lot about mental illnesses and is trying to bring the chemical and spiritual approach on them. The best I can advice you is to go to a psychiatrist and neurologist if needed. I wish you the best. Argentox2@yahoo.com
My suggestion would be that your husband first talk to a medical doctor about this. If the medical doctor says it's a psychological problem, rather than physical, I would suggest your husband consider what is called a "consultation" with a mental health professional. A consultation is not the same thing as therapy. It is precisely to find out IF there is a problem, and if so, what it is, and what to do about it. It's a very helpful tool.
As to how you can help your husband? I would highly recommend understanding, patience and respect. It's hard to be so unnerved by something going on in one's mind and having a loved one respect our need for space or understanding is an invaluable gift. Ask him what would help the most when he's upset. If he can't verbalize it, try things and observe his reaction. If hugging him makes him more irritable, DON'T. If giving him space makes him seem to calm down faster, give him space.
Good luck to both of you!
p.s. Always always always be sure the mental health professional has a license and check their credentials. Also always remember: you have hired them, they work for you!
I use to see people coming after me with a large butcher knives. I was abused as a child, he may have been also. I did not know who these people were for a long time. I finally was able to see the faces and these were the abusers. He needs to go to the doctor, he will be able to get some help to get through this time in his life.
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