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It is important you show how you feel - as your feelings are perfectly valid and need to be expressed. However saying something to your ex can leave you open and vulnerable to hurt again as you can not be sure how he'll react. personally I would put as much distance between yourself and him as possible. it is hard and it is tempting to look back. however if you do you could drift back to an uncertain and potentially (emotionally) dangerous place. Stay strong and move forward not sideways or back!
It is best to just let him catch you cheating and hurt him alot.
Hurt her how? Like cheated on her? That shouldn't need anymore explaining. I'd appreciate it if I'd hurt a girl in a way that wasn't obvious and before breaking up with me, she explained it to me first.
It's okay to show feelings, you're human. Just be sure that the feeling that you show is for your own benefit and not for his.
Crying and feeling down, just for a little moment, is the normal process of grief. Keeping your feelings all bottled up will only hurt you in the long run. Image an annoying echo that keeps playing in the back of your mind. Sounds familiar? Well let that echo out and cry. Have a good cry, admit that you're hurt and then move on.
I'm not sure how to explain this to a T but your just going through the process of grief. Everything you do now is for your benefit and don't worry about your ex. He's a nobody, just as we all are, a bunch of nobodies spending our little time on earth.
Those are not your only two options.
There's a bit of a middle ground. Actions speak louder than words. Don't do either. Ignore him. He'll get the message.
That way you'll preserve your dignity whilst being true to your feelings.
If he asks you what's up and why you wont' speak to him. Tell him how you feel by what he did. But calmly..
That way it can't turn into an argument and he can't accuse you of being a drama queen.
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