Should I talk to my dad...?
Question:
So, should I talk to him about how I've been feeling?
I also tend to be tired all the time just about and I don't really like art and band any more (I've just QUIT band too. I used to love them both).
BTW, I'm a 13 year old girl.
Answers:
By all means, if u cannot talk to ur father then please talk to someone. it sounds like u have a chemical imballance that they use to call BiPolar. it causes severe mood swings.
From real happy to the lowest of moods. It is not sameful to have a illness that u cannot control on ur own. Do not wait to talk to someone. Dr. Father, Mature Friend, Counsler..This in not a situation to wait around for to fix itself.
You sound like a normal 13 year old girl.
You should speak to your dad, you may be chemically imbalanced. Good luck!
yep, I would definitely talk to your dad about how you're feeling. even if he doesn't take you to see someone, it can just simply help to talk with someone.
yeah, you're gonna be like that for a while. especially the tired part and the moody parts. however, if you think you might be suicidal, you probably need to talk to somebody right away. and your likes and dislikes are gonna be changing pretty dramaticly throughout the next few yrs.
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I think you should talk to your dad.
I first talked to my regular family doctor and she sent me to a real psychiatrist person. Talk to your dad and your doctor, it helps a lot. When I talked to my dad, he took full charge of it and got me what I needed.
yes. you need medical attention. no worries though ur not the only one. I, myself now at the age of 14 and going on 15, walk the same path as u are just a little bit more ahead: i used to LOVE band and cant get enough but when i started eighth grade, nothing i like appeals to me much anymore. if u think u might waste too much money over some "stupid moods", go to the library and check out some books on the symtoms of depression. cause there's a BIG chance that u are suffering depression. the ocational happy moods are just some moodswings ur getting (that's also me) but please get it check out before it's too late. talk to ur father and perhaps he will know what to do next ( he will be very proud that u can tell him something that deep). but like i said, do it before it's too late. for me, i was so worked up about not wasting my parent's money on this "stupid thing" i got to the point where i started cutting myself not to just feel the pain and vent out the emotions, but i almost died twice in my " i just want to die" phases: in my bathroom where i almost cut off my left hand. AND another time in my room where i tried to slit my throat (keyword TRIED). which not only scared my parents, but also wasted MORE money than i could have if i told them straight.because if i told them straight they would have just paid for the shrink, and the possible antidepressants. but what i did, they had to pay ER bills, hospital bills, mental clinic bills, as well as the shrink and antidepressants. perhaps we can chat together more often
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Sorry to hear you are feeling so low, it is normal for a girl of you're age to feel this way. Talk to you're dad, I'm sure he will be able to help and I'm sure money is not a problem he will only be concerned with you're happiness. If you get help through you're GP it will cost you're dad nothing. Also when you're feeling low just sit at the computer and type, i am more than happy to chat, if what you want to say is too personal for this site, please do not hesitate to mail me direct. I am sending you HUGE hugs, i hope you feel better soon. X X X X
talk to your dad about it
Good Luck!
Yes, I would talk to your Dad but you might not need a really expensive shrink. Maybe there is one at school you can speak with & I am not talking about the ones that just help you pick your classes but a real counselor. Plus you might just need to see your doctor and be put on a perscription drug to help with the mood dips you are going through. You should definately talk with your dad but tomorrow probably isn't the best day, not when he is having his own procedure done. You should talk with him on another day when he feels a little better and less stressed about what he is going through and go to your own doctor. If you want to talk to me at all you can email me any time. Hope this helped.
i think you should talk to your dad. it always helps to let it all out- if you dont want to talk, write it down. it helps a lot. I dont think you need a shrink- most people feel bad sometimes. also, it could be to do with your age- you are in your teens adn who knows what your hormones are doing?? Feeling tired is also common in many people of your age- it tends to be caused by low blood sugar levels, which are again down to your hormones and stuff. Your mood swings may be due to your being a woman, if you know what i mean! I really think you should try to get your feelings out of you, but i dont think you need a shrink. sometimes they can do more harm than good....:)
good luck hun x
maybe you have to talk about it with him. get to know of him more.. maybe can you like, email me? id like to hear your other problems. other people's problems also help me to get mine. you should email me.
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