Y do i always feel like this?


Question:
im 16 and i always feel insecure, i always feel im not inshape as other people, and as social as others, and it seems like im depressed. like i a year ago, for example i wanted to get my driving permit, then its like i really dont care no more. and i dont feel like gettin a job no more. and ill just go with the flow, and i dont talk much, as i used to wen i was hangin with my freinds..i mean i just got so many thoughts in my mind. like i want to get in shape. be more talkative, i want to get a gf and stuff like that, and it seems like im happier by myself. what is this from, me just goin through a stage in my life and it will were off, or is it because i smoked to much weed.

Answers:
i think you might be depressed
im 15 and have been kind of depressed too lately because i have severe anxiety but i started medication
i really suggest you see a therapits trust me it could save your life.my father killed himself from depression 7 years ago and if he had just gotten help he might still be here 2day
ur emo buddy!
This is the second question I read of yours that talks about weed. Either you're just playing around, or you really suspect that weed is behind all your problems. If you are REALLY that concerned, the answer is simple - get off weed and everything will probably improve for you.
Haha, welcome to being a teenager!
If you feel that way then change buddy instead of moping around.
Start running or what ever, talk more. Don't expect people to start talking to you.
Just relax!
And one more thing, lay off the weed idiot!
It's burning all your brain cells.
People will like you more if you stop smoking like a chimney.

Trust me honey,
Every one feels this way at one point or another in their life!
It's just a phase.

Hopefully this helped!
smoking weed can really impair a persons abilities. The I do not want to do nothing and happy all by myself attitude can be a result from your "habit"
Get off the drugs and take care of yourself!
Lol. Yes weed could cause some of this only because it is a comfort in your life and stops you from doing things. BUT more than that you are at the prime maturation age for boys. Alot of boys feel really weird and outside during this time. Many people think girls are the ones who go through a huge change but ive seen it more in boys. Getting in shape is good and talking to people but dont think of it as this great thing to dream about. HAve a billion friends and nice abs are played up too much. Its been proven (carl rogers and Maslow) that self0actualization makes you more happy than living an artifical life. I enjoy spending alot of time alone, (walking reading, cooking w/e) but Im also very social. I have great long term friendships and good associations also. Im not perfect and have some faults but I just deal with them day to day and know that I know whats best for me. You should relize that you know what is best for you. If you want to be alone, thats fine, but challenging yourself is also good. You could volunteer, get job(its really good ppl skill builder and money for the future) , or find out what you really like. IF you feel depressed therapy helped alot of "normal" ppl I knew. Mental illness has a bad stigma but the ppl who cope with it seem to strive the most. IVe never been but would have no problem with it. Also, relationships are super played up. I cant tell you how many of my friends tell me "I wish I didn't go out with ;;soo and sooo;;, I wish focused on school more or worked more, or spent more time with my fammily and friends,,, blahhh,,,," Its kinda funny, but just rmeember not to feel to much pressure on yourself going into a relationship. Just have fun with it and see where it goes. Some ppl wait longer than others. GOOD luck!
Weed can make you psychotic. You may be on the way.
Stop with the weed. It's the reason for the go with the flow feeling. You do care it's jest that you're tellig yourself that you don't so your thoughts mimic your actions. Try to find friends that make you feel good fo rwho you are not the weed smoking ones, but people who like you. If you imagine youself as a happy confident individual every night before you go to bed, you will become the happy individual you imagine yourself. Negative thoughts affect you. As for the whole is this a stage thing, yes it is. People who are 13-18 can be sooo mean! I know what I'm talking about I'm your age. It's a stage in your life and you will get over it if you imagine it. Good luck!
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