Am I depressed or just plain lazy??


Question:
A lot of people think I am lazy but I wasn't always so idle. I have gone through a divorce (husband left for someone else), NASTY custody battle, I am BROKE no matter how hard I work because I pay for daycare, I'm sick a lot, I am living with my mom and mean-@ss step-dad until the divorce is final. I am sad all the time. I do take good care of my kids but that's about it. I don't feel like doing anything anymore. My mom talks about me being lazy and that makes me feel even worse. I feel like I am on the verge of dying from all this sorrow. Am I just lazy and making excuses?? How can I brake free from this?

Answers:
i think your depressed. and incredibly stressed. i recommend counsoling.
Its no wonder you're exhausted, you've been through a lot of hard stuff! The thing is, you need to find something you are passionate about. Be it your job, kids, a hobby such as reading or cooking, working out, whatever. You have to find something that makes you happy and gives you a reason to want to get out of bed in the mornings. Once you get that life, that happiness back, you'll be suprised at how much easier other things get. Best of wishes to you
you need to go out!! that might make you feel a little better yake your mind off things. i found a site where you could take a quiz. if this don't work go to webmd.com and look up depression. i hope you feel better. you should go to the food stamp office and sign up for ccdf. if your a single mom your childcare should cost $0.00 good luck! hang in there i know how it is. thoses babies need you!
Don't let anyone or anything get you down. your children need you. Do everything for them. Forget him life go's on. Find something you like to do. change jobs, move out of your mother house, change your hair color, dress up, put make-up on, make your self up. A brand new you,Take the kids out for to a movie, go to a church, walks.sing dance cheer up.
Pray,pray ask god to show you the way. it may not come as fast as you want. but it will when you least expect it, but you must do your part also. It's hard !!your down and out,
but you must do it for YOU and your KIDS.


Take Care
Think of YOU and the KIDS

****Forget him ****
LIVE,LOVE,BE HAPPY
Good luck
We all want life to exactly our way, but it never works out perfectly. We want something but don't get it and it feels as if our lives are ruined. We want people to love us exactly the way we want them too love us, but it hardly ever works out that way. We want perfect peace and joy, but someone is always oppressing us or insulting us or doing so to our friends. We want freedom from pain and old age, but suffering and death comes. So what to do? How can we bear the sadness and misery that fills our lives, how can we escape torment and death?

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