Do I hate my parents?
Question:
why me?' And finally I got the answer. It's because my parents.
my dad drinks alot. my mom said he even abused when she was pregent. My one of the oldest memory is my dad threatening me and my mom with the knife. His abuse gets more She is deal with me very hard. She said that I was a very troubled baby I always cry..And she slapt me when I cried.
Suprisingly They don't do harm to my brother.
And when I was 7~8 years old I burned human-shape toys. And in school I don't know how to talk to other kids so I couldn't make friends. And I deal with the stress by eating. I got fat and My parents insult me, Hit me because I was fat.
after that, I decided pretend that I'm usually gueit and shy. Even though I'm not. and 16, I can't stand it anymore and I got mad. After that I trying to find out Why I became like this and I thought I don't know I became like this but loose
Answers:
Although I have not suffered physical abuse from my parents, they have caused a lot of emotional anguish in me. HOWEVER, you must look at this as an oppotunity to make the world better. It is hard to turn a bad situation into something good, but you must listen to your heart and leep trying. Oprah was sexually abused by her uncle and now she helps the world. Chrisitina Aguilera's father physically abused her and her mother, and now she helps organizations that help battered women and children. You are 16 and have the whole world ahead of you! Do well in school and go to a college far away and enter a loving and supportive environment. Then break that cycle by not beating family and teach others that it is wrong. As for your mother, if he still beats her, I would tell her to get out of that relationship, and I don't say that often. But when one's safety is compromised, you have to get out. I wish you the best and keep going! You have the power to overcome this; many people have. You are not alone.
We're the same, except for the thing about the parents.
I meant that we're the same as in I'm always angry at people.
That is terrible but it is your choice to do that stuff.
hi soulmate :D
hahahha same here except i learned to think of myself only in this world and do whatever to be happy and i lost wieght why because it made me feel better. so do that
and im sure you dont like your parents its not you being wrong because i understand everything your saying its your parents fault for bringing you up that way and being so rude what did they expect to raise that way!
seriously just do whatever makes you happy dont bother with them theyre only hurting you. :(
and if you dont care about them that much thats is a perfect reason to call the cops and maybe you can get emancipated only if you want to. :)
all my parents ever did was give me horrible anxiety drug problems and depression :D
now i give them hell till im old enough to do something in this world
Will finding out why really change your how you act out your anger.
What you need to find is a different way of expressing yourself without getting angry.
When you are angry go talk to a minister or friend and ask them just to listen.
If you can afford it, go to your doctor and ask him to recommend a therapist.
In time you will get over your anger, especially since you are taking the first step.
And in time, when you become independent, you will learn that you do love your parents. They are only human and made mistakes with you.
That they may have changed may be why they are not treating your brother differently. They have learned from their mistakes.
Ask them for help. You may be surprised that they support you.
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You have done something that takes some people years to do with intense therapy that have been in your situation. You have separated your parents behaviors that were cruel and hurtful from them being mom and dad. It is possible to do both and that is OK.
I would really like to address the animal abuse a little bit. If you are at a point where you are sharing that with other people its time to be brave and ask for help. If you cant talk to your parents then a counselor at school or another adult. Best of luck to you,please keep us posted.
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