How to forget the ruins of my life?
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the same thing happened to me
and it's really hard to get people to move past it and accept you as a person
instead of the psycho kid
just try to move past it
if people ask you about it
don't lie or deny it
just casually say "yeah...all that did happen"
don't make a big deal out of it
and pretty soon other people won't make a big deal out of it either
i hope this helped
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move on , be yourself , do your own thing , get knew friends
Learn from it. live your life as an example, not as a warning.
i hope you can find that place in yourself where you know that everything is going to work itself out if you just keep trying... life is often a source of struggle... be strong, try your best and enjoy your life. be a source of wisdom and a positive influence on others.
think of the good things in your life such as your loved ones, my mom just passed away a month ago i miss her so much at least you still i hope have yours
I know you are feeling very bad right now and probably with good cause. Your friend did a bad thing to you. But it doesn't have to ruin your life. You sound like a strong person who wants to get better. My advice to you is to find a mental health professional that you can talk to. Do you still have a contact at the hospital where you were. They can probably put you in touch with someone who can help. Someone you can talk to. Maybe a favorite teacher or school counselor could help. Please don't dispair. You can beat this thing and become a stronger better person for it.
I'm a grandfather who has seen a lot in his days. I have seen my children and grandchildren need professional help. And I've seen that help do them a lot of good. Go for it.
All the best to you. My e-mail is charlesp@hcecwildblue.com. Write if you need to.
my school is really big on stereotyping and wen im down "wich is alot" im called an emo and goth ALOT at my school every one at my school (its really small so every one no's every one) thinks im emo. i have to just block them all out because wat u just have to remeber is they really dont no wat they r talking about after u do some stuff u dont believe in emo any more u believe in depression. u just have to learn to tune them out.
theyre only talking about it cause theyre possibly worried about you.
im a BLP bipolar and my friends talk about my issues too. i hate when they do but theyre just doing it to remind me how dumb my episodes are/were. if theyre making fun of you theyre no friends at all. when i was your age i had the same episode. i od. and slit me up and my friends made fun of me and everyone thought i was a crazy. i honestly had to leave my school cause it was an everyday issue of being teased for being the psycho kid. but going somewhere where no one knew my past and i could "start over" really helped with controlling my anxiety, depression, etc. cause i didnt have to tell them. im not saying i ran away but i really wanted to get away form the people that made me feel like - well ****... i wanted people to think happy around me cause thats what i needed.
i would be strong, look forward, and think positive.
i looked at it this way when my attempted suicide failed on probably 6 accounts - im not ready to go. and you know what im 23 now and i am so happy i didnt go. yeah i deal with my bipolar issues to this day. i deal with the urges of cutting myself. my suicidal thoughts blah blah blah. but the truth of the matter is - i have to know thats its wrong - its just an illness i have to control and i have the best friends i can have because they dont make fun of me about it. they help me. they really look out for me. ask me everyday "how are you feeling? what sosmething positive that happened to you today? what are you looking forward to tomorrow?"..
in high school - you have no friends - you wont figure out who your friends are until after high school - please trust me. im not saying you dont have great acquaintances but i am saying that youll know you your TRUE friends are after high school. and if youre so-called-friends wont shut up about your business. who are they really? why are they not telling you what a great person you are? why are they reminding you of somehting horrible? they need to be positive.
i hope you all well.
if you need someone to talk to you dont hesitate to email me. or if you have aim i can give you my sn.
i just know its easier to talk to ppl that have the same disorders that cant judge you cause 1) i dont know you so i cant 2) i dont know your friends.
i know this maybe a lot to post to the public but - why do i care if some person on yahoo is judging me haha.
seriously, if you have any more questions dont hesitate to email me! :)
<3 ashley
When someone says something to you. Completely ignore them. i used to cut my wrists and my stomach I have one scar that is still very noticeable and many people make comments i either dont say anything or just say Okay and your point is... No one has the right to judge anything like this. they have no idea how you were feeling at the time and they should grow up and realize that this is a compulsion not something for attention.
Good luck, dont let peoples cruelty and stupidity bring you down!
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