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You need to get yourself into some extra curricular activities; a sport; a social club; something in the sunshine and away from the box of your room/computer.
you should definetly spend some alone time with yourself. ask yourself why you're feeling like this. maybe go to a therapist if you thinktalking will help. and THERAPISTS ARE NOT FOR CRAZY PEOPLE!!! poeple do it because it helps to talk. and therapists might have dealt with a situation like yours before, and might know exactly what to do. good luck. and tell yourself "I am in control... I am in control" It'll help.
It sounds as if you are just becoming overly self conscious. allot of people do at that age. Just remember that the best thing you can ever offer anyone is your honest true self. If some one doesn't like your true self, are they really what you want in a friend? I didn't think so. don't sweat it, you will get through all of it! Good luck
I am happy to hear you are aware of the changes in yourself and want to get back to "being you". Most 14 year olds are so consumed with being popular that they don't listen to their true feeling. Start to surround yourself with kids that act the way you want to act, and the rest will follow. Good Luck!
The only enemy you have is yourself! You have to do and say what makes you feel good and stop worrying about what others might say or think, besides you can't satisfy everyone and you will learn that no matter what you do someone will always find something negative to say about it. So your better off satisfying yourself, love yourself and stop putting yourself through this madness! I hope you can find peace within yourself and good luck!
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I remember when I was young I had that same type of feeling. I thought I was the strangest person in the world. This is a time of great change in your life and change is not always easy. If you feel out of control you must talk to someone,and, if you don't feel out of control, you need to talk to someone. Be nice to yourself.
When you see the worlds spinning round you need to cool the jets like breathe into a paper bag. Adults drink to lose brain cells. Take it easy you are definitely stressed by the social pressures
As you probably know, your age has alot to do with what you are feeling and thinking. It is such a difficult stage of life! Hormones, peer pressure, just the world in general and society in general. All of this can be very confusing! That said, I would recommend that you ask your parent(s) about perhaps hooking up with a counselor or therapist...an objective 3rd party who will listen and hear what your concerns are would be a good idea. Sometimes talking to a "stranger" (therapist) is easier than talking to parents or people you know. A therapist won't throw it back in your face and say "Oh, you're goofy!" or "What have you got to be worried about at your age?" And, therapists are trained to ask questions and teach you the tools to do some self-searching with and to perhaps, help you feel better about yourself and the ways you think. You aren't wierd and it is possible to be you. Be honest in talking to a therapist and I think you'll get back to being you! Good luck!
well..this summer has been weird for me too. I want to go places but i never feel like leaving the house and when i do leave the house and i go to church or out in public i feel like crying. and i never feel like doing the things i like to do like shopping and other things. I truly believe i only have one real friend. or none at all.
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