How can i help my depressed boyfriend?

Question:

My boyfriend used to be so outgoing, talking to everyone he would sing along to songs and would just do fun things. Im 16 and hes 18. He used to rent movies for us and go to malls to just have fun. He used to stay up late talking to me on the phone and we would stay out late. Unfortunately everything has changed, we dont get to talk a hole lot becuase he always exhausted(when i was depressed i was always tired so this is a sign i guess), he never wants to do anything fun.. and he just isnt his outgoing funny self. I cant remember the last time he cracked a joke. Could he be depressed becuase he had to move becuase of finicial dificulties and he absolutely hates his job...

What can i do to cheer him up?
I want him to feel good again he complains about how hes juts no himself.

I need advice on this situation in general

Please and thank you:)

Answers:
Looks like hes going through a rough patch. You need to
motivate him to take control and change whatever he doesnt like abt his life ( eg: the job). Tell him not to give up, remind him what it feels like to be happy...people start feeling good when they are surrounded by positivity. You also try to create
a positive atmosphere for him.

( Maybe you could buy him a nice self-help book, if hes into reading, take him for a funny movie, get together with his
best friend and plan somethin special for him...)

Good luck, best wishes

Encourage him to seek help from someone more qualified to help him.

, yes he is depressed because he hates his job, also your job is tiring ,after long hours, i would strongley suggest a job change, this happened to me, when i changed jobs , i got better very quickly, he also may not be sleeping well,do nice things for him, financial troubles drove me insane, that is a big depressant in its own, things will not change , until his life changes , good luck to you, joe

ask him whats wrong first before you start wondering what to do abou it

just show he him is loved and talk to him he will get over it he is just probubly upset

He is not in love with you anymore, sorry but that is the way guys act when they do not want to be the one to break up. He is trying to make you miserable, so you will be the to say that sentence. "Can we just be friends"

How can i help my depressed boyfriend?

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