I feel depressed lonely..?
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i am an introvert by nature but of late,have been trying real hard to socialize..i have "friends" around me,but it feels so empty inside,like i was meant to be lonely always,and these ppl around me,they seem so fake..i miss my family a lot,i live in a hostel and life here changes so fast,i m not able to cope with it.there are all sort of dark thoughts pulling me down..i feel stretched,like am on my breaking point..but m strong.i cry a lot and it keeps building up in...it seems so hopeless..
and dont mention me that this is depression and i need a shrink..i know i do,i just won't!
is there a way out?
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We all want life to exactly our way, but it never works out perfectly. We want something but don't get it and it feels as if our lives are ruined. We want people to love us exactly the way we want them too love us, but it hardly ever works out that way. We want perfect peace and joy, but someone is always oppressing us or insulting us or doing so to our friends. We want freedom from pain and old age, but suffering and death comes. So what to do? How can we bear the sadness and misery that fills our lives, how can we escape torment and death?
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read the bible.I am not a bible thumping judgmental person, but there are answers there. I like to watch Joel Osteen on tv, he is quite motivational. If you truly want to be happy, picture what it would look like in your mind. See it, feel it, and visualize yourself surrounded by real friends. Then go and do it. As Tony Robbins says,When the why becomes big enough, the how becomes easy! Getting out of your funk will take a lot of effort on your part, but really immerse yourself in how it will feel when you are living the life you desire, then ask yourself, what do I need to do in order to achieve it? You are the only one that can make the change. Understand that it is ok to feel sad every now and then. there is nothing wrong with that. We can't always be up. Surround yourself with upbeat and positive people that you admire, and soon you will be in a place that you desire. Remember, God has promised you the desires of your heart. MErely ask Him for help and you will evventually make it. Good luck. and God Bless.
there is no way out if you are that depressed beside seeking proffesional help. you should realy do that it would be good for you. do you realy want to keep living this way? i dont think so. look in your local phone book and seek some help, do youself that favor before its to late
There is. You just have to keep telling yourself that it'll pass. It won't feel like it will now, but eventually it will.
You really should talk to somebody, anybody if you can. That helps. Just telling someone else about it in person, even if they don't have an answer does a lot of good.
I'm sure it's natural to feel depressed and lonely when you are a stranger in a strange place. Maybe this experience will help you along your life's journey. Good things do come from tough times. If worse comes to worse I suggest you go back to live with your family, but remember nothing ventured nothing gained.
I say this to many people who feel so isolated. It certainly won't be the cure to depression but it helps to have a shoulder to lean on. Tell someone how you're feeling, even though the cause may be unknown. You'll feel a lot better after opening up to someone. It gives a lot of assurance just to know that someone else is aware of your suffering. Godspeed.
You mention that you miss your family badly, why can't you go to them---are your mom & dad alive? Why not go visit with them? Just doing that might make you feel better.Otherwise maybe you could pick out 1 or 2 of your "friends" and do your best to get close to them. Get to know them and let them know you then maybe you can get with them and you can start getting out of the house and out of yourself..Find some things that you guys share in common--maybe you both like to go to the movies, or go bowling, or whatever. Then maybe you can try to find you an apartment to rent either on your own or get one of your new friends to move in with you and you guys share the expenses. Otherwise, I won't mention the obvious but maybe to help you out of this slump you could get you some St. John's Wort or something along that line to help take the edge off while you work on the rest of the problem.
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