I'm confused?!?!?Are Our Bodies Discusting?
Question:
becuase well I thought a while ago that our bodies were ugly and discusting
but Now i dont know as i'm getting older
i'm 15 and not soo niave and well
I'm not sure anymore?
Thinking like that nearly made me have an eating disorder but i am very much over that I think
what is a girls body supposed to be like?
I'm Soo confused?
Answers:
alot of people go threw the same thing as your feeling or felt. its just being a teeneger i guess, and what media says about things doesnt make anything easier. i think also seeing other people who have what you call a 'perfect image' effect what you think of yourself. and i guess when your younger it really does make you think of stuff like that cause then you think of yourself in a couple you probably wonder what your going to look like hoping you dont look ugly and fat or something. get what am i saying? but even though no one is perfect no matter how much it looks like some people say or think they are. its up to YOU to make what you wanna become. i have no idea i just hoped that answered your question because i feel the same way, and i am also 15. but also no one is going to have the same face, body, height, or weight be EXACTLY the same at our age. where still somewhat young and not fully developed with some things so i guess everyone is suppose to be different cause i personally think if everyone looked the same way it would make everything so dull and boring know what i mean?
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um. this is weird. maybe you should get some help from parents. bodies arent weird, just...made for certain things.
I think you mean disgusting. What you need to do is pay more attention to your teachers and stop obsessing about total nonsense. Please stop worrying about trivialities.
All human forms are beautiful. I think that you should see a doctor to talk about this. I am not really sure what you are asking.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and the final judgments are made in your mind.
There is no set description of what a girls body is supposed to be like. I think it's important to exercise and eat right but not become obsessive over it. It's also important for you to feel comfortable with the way you look - whatever your size/ weight may be. Despite what your appearance is, all that matters is who you are on the inside.
If you are very concerned about this, consider talking to your parents or your pediatrician.
I also used to think my body was a ugly fat thing that needs to be just like everyone then people told me everyone is different and that is okay ur body is "supposed " to look like a body not so skinny that u look sick everyone is different there is no way a body is supposed to be like am 16 i have a eating problem i hope this helps u u are perfect just the way u are everyone is different there 4 no one should have the same body type
hey im sure you are a lovely person,as they say,beauty is in the eye of the beholder,glad you got to grips with the eating disorder,heres a wee star to cheer you up,
I'm not sure because we are all different shapes and sizes. I think ours bodies are meant to be healthy like not to fat but not to thin. You could ask your Doctor. There are these charts that show you what weight you should be for your height and it tells you if you are under or over weight. This is the link. You can look up other charts as well. I think it also depends on your bone structure because I looked on that thing and it said I'm underweight but have a small bone structure. I think go to your Doctor and ask them what weight is good for you.
every girl is different and develops at different stages just go with how you are growing and see your family doctor for some guidance
love yourself.love yourself...love yourself....you are exactly what you are supposed to be....
Well, to be honest, humans are pretty much the most disgusting creatures on the planet, but I wouldn't worry too much about it. The human body isn't ugly or disgusting in appearance, unless you stare too long at someones insides. On the outside, we're all the same: perfectly imperfect. I think that's worth feeling comfortable about.
At 15 your body isn't finished developing yet. Be patient and I'm pretty sure you'll like the end result.
So that was you peeping in my curtains?
It sounds like like your self image is not good but remember everyone goes through these stages and has the same kinds of thought about this time in their lives.
I think your just young and your body is still developing. That's the only reason you probably fell that way. I don't think you need a Dr. You just need time to develop. Unless something happened to you in life that makes you feel this way. Like someone abused you in certain ways then you really would need to get help. Don't want to go into details but you probably know what I mean. God bless
People come in all shapes and sizes.I think you're confused,as you're at an impressionable age,and probably feel insecure about your body because you're comparing yourself to what you see in the media and the increasing number of young girls who are obsessed with being very slim.It sounds like you have some sort of expectation of what your body should be like.It's easier said than done,but you should just try to accept yourself as you are..You'll feel a lot happier that way.
Go visit a burn unit at your local hospital. I promise you'll change your mind.
wots confussing? your body has a function and it is up 2 you 2 look out 4 it!!!
The problem with self esteem is that it is extremely complicated.
It is another term for love of self and all its parts, mind, body and soul.
God created all in beauty and if it is not beautiful, then it contains and untruth. Young people are particularly vulnerable to the vagaries of hormone changes, which directly moods and self image. Females are more susceptible to because of their complex biology compared to males. Also there is the problem of peer pressure, which means comparing yourself with others.
The fashion gurus do not help either, making girls particularly, desire to look a certain way to attract boys perhaps.
Inwardly you are a radiant beautiful being, who has a knowledge and power beyond your wildest dreams. However it is unawakened because of other forces are keeping you in this state. Take comfort in that all will become awakened in the year 2013, when every soul on the planet will experience ascension.
It is common to have body image problems as a teenager. Have a chat with your GP for reassurance.
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