Im so miserable?
Question:
I lost my job a while ago and had to resort to working for a family member, doing something completely unrealted to anything Im interested in.Ive been applying thru job center, newspapers, fish for jobs... I cant get anything else..
I feel like im at the end of my thether today...Im so so so so bored, I literally just went into the loo and cried!
I know self pity is rubbish..and I am grateful to have a job..But Im alone in an office, with no natural light all day...I talk to no one and just cant handle it anymore...Im a very socialble person..Im quailified in health care yet im working as an data entry clerk..
Can anyone..I dunno help! Tho, I kinda gotta just help myself really...
Oh, sorry..huge blow out there...
but I needed to tell someone!
x
Answers:
Hi there my dear friend doing a job you do not want or like has away of draining your energy before you even start work, but if you think about this in a positive way instead of a negative way, it will be to your advantage. Think of this as a stop gap until you find another job you would like doing and let this job make you go out of your way to find a better job, then at the end of it look back and say to yourself without that job I would have never found this one ?
Days like that really bite! But keeping looking for a better work fit for youself! You sound like you'd do best working around more people. Don't give up!!
phonesex with me might cheer you up
awe, we all have those days...it'll pass, it's just a bump in the road...go slow and you'll get over that bump. might seem like it's taking forever but it will pass. before you know it, you'll be going in the right direction.
You need to register with some job agencies if you haven't all ready done so. Pop down to your local agencies with your CV and see if they can help.
Have a look on http://www.reed.co.uk they have hundreds and hundreds of jobs online for you to send your CV forward for.
Cheer up mate, it's not the end of the world it's only work! Plenty of people hate their jobs.
Good luck!
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Dont be soooo hard on yourself, things take time, just be patient for now, something better WILL come up, it always does. Just keep looking and go with the flow for now and remember the majority of people out there hate their jobs x
honey I was outta work due to a broken leg and that lasted for an entire year > I am back to work now but not before I had to go and live with my parents . They helped me get back on my own two feet ( literally ) . My suggestion is DON'T GIVE UP !
cheer up sugar, i'm sure things will get better. keep looking for jobs , one will turn up.
look at the glass half full.
drink strong scrumpy,,,,,,,,should work fine for you
aah, i know its not going to help you, but i go through the same thing a lot of days and its nice to know that im not alone. i hope things pick up for you now, as life is full of highs after lows xx
Hang in there, you'll get through it. Need someone to talk to?
Hey,Cheer up my friend,things will get better for you so dont you worry.
If you still feel like this tomorrow,go and speak to your Dr,there are many ways to help you get through bad depressive times,so dont suffer in silence,it will just make you feel worse and the longer you leave it,the harder it will be to feel your old self again.
Heres my smile for the day to help cheer you up :-)
I'm sorry to hear your feeling so low, but can relate to exactly how your feeling, been there done that sort of thing.
i know it wont help telling you, but it wont be forever.
keep your chin up, keep smiling and the jobs will come along in good time, probably all at once, then you will be faced with the dilemma of which one to take lol
See depression treatments, at http://www.ezy-build.net.nz/~shaneris... on page 2.
You poor thing. Everybody's been there so don't think your alone. I'm amazed you cant get a job in healthcare? My partner is a reg. nurse and reckons they're crying out for staff everywhere.
Just hang in there, things always get better...they have to right?
and i bet you feel better for getting that off your chest? you will find a job soon (im in a similar situation right now and am treating this time as a well deserved rest) good luck and dont get down if you can help it x
If you have access to MSN or yahoo messenger add me, and I will chat to you!
But the one good thing is that because you feel like this, it will mean you will keep looking for jobs and not settle for what you have.
hang in there ?you will get something soon and if you don't like that just keep trying but don't jump out of the pan into the fat?keep the job you have until you get something else?have you not got a radio or CD player you can listen to music takes away the silence?if you are are in the health care there should be something keep trying and don't loose faith get out with your friends and relax a while good luck
Partake of the herb, my friend. You already know.
Sounds to me like your working conditions are questionable, no natural light day after day - no wonder you are miserable.
No. One. You most definitely can help yourself by finding out if your working conditions are in line with the law (family member or no family member)
Two you can go to your doctor and ask professional opinion. The CAB can also help.
Three you can choose to stop working in those conditions and sign on at the job centre and actively seek work and train with them.
Do what will make you feel happier.
Good Luck and Good Wishes - here is a link to help you find good cheer again
http://www.frontiernet.net:80/~jimdandy/...
All i can offer you is some comfort. When i read what you wrote i can relate to it so much. I'm a qualified nurse but i'm working for a family member in the market. It is so disheartening not being able to do what you are trained to do but i just keep thinking one day i will actually find my feet again. Like you i've been to the job centre and looking in the argus every week but have found nothing. Just wanted to say you're not alone and don't give up.
Things constantly change in our lives. It's just a way of life. Up and down and up and down. You will go up again I promise. Just hang in there and look up to the sky and say a prayer. Or I will say one for you. It's okay.....
Sometimes the best times in your life, the best opportunites of your life, come right after something hard and terrible like this. I hope this is your case :) Good luck and remember that it's not a forever thing, just temporary.
trust whit god only.!!!!!
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