I am so unhappy?
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You can't make your self happy, unless you are happy with yourself. I know it sounds weird, I went through a long depression period, and that was what someone told me, which I thought it was completely ridiculous, but the more I thought of it, it made sense. As far as your job goes, you can change it, but only if you don't make excuses for why you can't.Just find what makes you happy, and include that more in your life. Try talking to loved ones, and maybe those who know you best will be able to bring you back to your happy self?
find a different j0b
hmmmmmmmmmm...
go party.
u only go around once in this life..make it last.
who sais u can't change it?
hi
Yes you can.
find another job then quit and move on with your life go to a club like the horny toad or something do something fun with your friends
sure you can change it!
Are you a slave???
Decide to be a happier person. Think happy thoughts and pretend to be happy, it make turn out that you really are happy.
always try to make the best of your life.being unhappy can really dew some damage to your life.
You CAN do WHATEVER You want. So go do it. Enjoy your life. If you worry about what might happen - nothing will ever happen. That's no fun. Do what you want.
life is short when u get old all u gonna have is memories so do whatever u got to do to make ur self happy .live your life
find something to look forward to after work and move on . its all what you make of it.good choices make for happiness and you can leave your job just takes some thought on how to maybe that's what you need to do so you have something other than negativity
maybe you need to discuss this with someone you trust, such as a religious leader or your best friend... i'm not sure that people over the internet can really come to a conclusion, since we don't really know you :/ but i think that talking it out will ease things over and then you can make a rational decision about what you want to do. you may wish to go see a therapist, or find a new hobby to immerse yourself in, such as yoga or reading. find out what the base of your unhappiness is and see what you can do from there. good luck!
Find another job. I hate my job also but right now i'm going to school to do something that i know i will love. look into finding something that you love. once you change your job you'll be a happier person. but don't let the job control you. your just there for a few hours a day don't let it get you down.
God can make anyone happy!! you are probably thinking "another crazy Jesus freak!" But it is totally true. Just try Him out and see. He wants to be your friend and loves it when people bring their concerns to Him, and ask Him to take care of them. I don't know why you can't change your job, but I know God could get you the job you wanted if you asked- 'ask and you shall receive, seek and you shall find, knock and the door will be opened unto you'
I definitely do not want to appear as if I am attacking you; however we are an at-will employment nation. If you hate your job, you may not be able to change it immediately; however to say that you can't is hard to accept. Perhaps more explanation...
I realize that we cannot always do what we want in a career, but with planning and some good networking, you may be able to make a move.
If your job is parenthood.. well, that is a position that one cannot really quit.
It is horrible to be unhappy and then to have the work environment be awful just compounds everything. I wish you the very best..
I hope that you are able to improve the things you do not like and accentuate the things that make you happy.
I wish you well!
Ok, just think about all the luxuries that you have. Don't let your life revolve around the bad things that happen at your job. You go to work, the worst thing in the world, then you come home, wow you came home!! You don't have to go back until the next day, so for now let's enjoy being home. Let's have a good dinner, treat myself with desert, maybe even go for a refreshing walk. So you go to work, troubles are made there, but then when you come home leave them at work!! Don't drag them home with you. Then when you get your pay check, be glad that you hung in there! Just try to make the most of life, even though where you're working isn't too great. Look for more job openings, i don't know the circumstances of why you can't change it, but just always be on the look out for other jobs that you can take, maybe even jobs that pay more that you know you'll enjoy more. ^^ I hope that my advice helped.
sorry. i hate mine too. i try really hard to get along w/ coworkers. befriend them. but if your so unhappy, truly, u can find another job...start a business
Hey there! Happiness is a state of mind...You can change your mind at anytime, by changing your perspective. It may sound a little intricate, but it's really not! Also, there are things you can do, to make you feel better, like getting in touch with your spiritual side...This way you can feel a sense of purpose in life, to be connected to something greater than our single selves...You say you can't leave your job...why not?? Why not pursue something else that gives you satisfaction? Nothing's worse than getting stuck in a wretched job, w/a mean boss...or whatever the case may be...But remember.NOTHING is set in stone, unless you give up trying! God Bless you, I know where your coming from...I've felt the same way...But YOU--are the only person that can change things!!
heartbreath you can change it. Get a new resume together and send it out there. You never know till you try. Another thing is maybe it's time for a vacation, sounds like burn out. Give yourself a chance to rethink your options.
yeah, i totally agree with Ledreru! God's gotcha, hun. just trust in Him and ask Him to help you find happiness and you got it girl!
tell us why you CANT change your job..can you take some classes on the side that will develop skills in a job that you like and then move on.to answer your question properly ..more information is needed
what is it about your job that u dislike
is it a person who is making your life miserable
or is it a situation
answer these questions and u will solve ur problem
Lots of people have a lousy job they hate. If you can't get another job, heed these words.
What makes a job bearable is the people you work with. If they suck , your job shall be unbearable. If they are okay to be around, then it sucks less. If they are great, then you will laugh through the stupid moments.
I hope this helps ;-)
Well do something that makes you happy.
I feel like that too! I work too and I hate it! But just tell yourself that it could be a whole lot worst! Also try and find another job! Don't quit until you are sure that you'll get another job. Sometimes it doesn't matter how much you get paid but more of how much you have to deal with! I hope you'll feel better and realize that your not alone and everybody don't have anything perfect either!
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