I'm so depressed, I just had a nasty break up with my best friend.. help?

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And I think it may be over for good. I've done everything that I could think of to make up for what I did. I've sent a million apologies, I've tried to plead my case, I've had family members try to plead my case but she's still ignoring me and it's been like a month and a half since we've talked. The only thing left to do, is make up for me ending things with her and her crush. He's my only hope. But my only way of contacting him is on myspace but he hasn't logged on since June. I have a speculation that he would log on by the time school starts but the more and more I wait the more hopeless and depressed I become abt ending things with my friend. I want to just let it all go but my conscience won't let me. It says I should stick it out regardless of how tough and just wait on this boy. Just to at least see, it said it would be better if I regreted doing it that regret ing not doing it. What do you all suggest?

Answers:
Let it go. You have apologized, your friends and family have stood up for you and this friend does not want to talk to you...at least right now. So, let it go. Yes, it hurts. But you can't do anymore but get more depressed all the time. And leave this boy alone. Do NOT go to him to beg him to talk to her for you. Not only will he NOT do it, but you will be making yourself a fool.
Not knowing what you did, I can't tell you if it's you or her.so I am going with what you said.it was you.
You can do no more. Go back to living. If she wants to talk to you, she will do it in her own time. Bugging her and begging her is just making it WORSE. You're making her mad at you all over again.

I suggest you keep on trying to call ur friend and also her crush the phone is the key i guess! and make sure sure sure to do everything u can to talk to ur friend email, IM, phone, myspace, talk to her through ur friends and ur relatives.i hope u like my answer

okay. this has happened with me before only not quite as bad...
i think you have said enough sorrys..
lay off a little bit and she will come to you if shes ur true friend
if you keep annoying you.umm ur not gettin anywhere
but if she forgives you she'll come to you wen shes ready
she probably just needs a little break.
just dont worry just lay off a little bit and wait for the good time :]

Get yourself a new look, and look fabulous. You'll feel better about yourself too. Go out with the girls. Lead some guy on. then let him go. If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it is yours. if not, it was never yours to begin with. You apologized, that's it. Don't grovel. Have some dignity. Forgive yourself and really look at him through a person who is not in love with him, Is he worth all this? Sounds like garbage if he can't even return a call. A child. Things will get better.

ok maybe i'm not understanding you...but what did you do that was so bad? the best thing to do would be to back off a little... let your friend marinate on things without having people constantly be in her space about it.I'm telling you this from experience.my friend, whom i worked with for a couple months..broke up with her boyfriend... i didn't really know him.. the one time i met him he scared the heck out of me... then my husband and i got real rocky and ended things... her boyfriend and i hurt together and we would talk and talk and talk, until we were emotionally attached. when we finally decided to be a "thing" She decided she wanted him back. when she found out about us she was sooooooo mad and hated me.. at first i did what you are doing... then i said you know what I tried. i left her alone and we are now on talking grounds.hope this helps hun good luck

I'm so depressed, I just had a nasty break up with my best friend.. help?

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