I wanna give up.Help? SUICIDE!!?
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help! wut can i do?
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Call 911 or even walk to a neighbors house. Do whatever you can but dont kill your self. There is always something to live for. Tell them you cant stay in your house anymore. Maybe you have a relative you can stay with?
If you're telling the truth, how are you online? Wouldn't he have taken that from you too? If you seriously are telling the truth, where are you? I can get ahold of the police and get you help.
Please don't do it. contact the cops over the internet and see it through. that means testify, if it comes to it. You should not have to put up with this and you certainly should not have to kill yourself to get away from it. please don't do it.
My mom used to be an alchoholic and I got soo mad one day I tried to throw out all her beer and take her wallet. She was so mad and eventually I had to give it back. It really sucks, doesn't it. Just try to stay out of his way and lock yourself in your room. Hopefully he wont want to come in. Wait until he goes to sleep and then sneak out and go to the neighbors. Don't try suicide. Your father is drunk and he loves you, he just acts that way because thats what alchohol does to you. There are people out there who care about you.
You know you can Email the police department. If you're online now, why not send an Email to the police department?
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Do you have a cellphone? Call somebody NOW! Anyone you can think of; your best friend, any friend, anyone you know! Ask them to call social services or 911 and tell them that you're being physically beaten and abused by your father! Or, call 1-800-522-3511 yourself A.S.A.P. It's a toll free number and you won't get charged for it.
Since you're connected to the internet, trying getting on an Instant Message program and contacting a friend that way, if you don't have a cellphone.
Please don't commit suicide. I know this sounds typical of someone to say, but you have a whole life ahead of you! You can do anything with it! If you're going to willingly give up your life, at least do it in a good way when you're an adult; join the army or something and volunteer for the right reasons.
You'll get through this. If you really start feeling suicidal, call 1-800-784-2433. It's going to be O.K.
God bless you.
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Find someone to talk to. Other than empty names and empty faces and avatars on Yahoo!. Trust me, hurting yourself is not the way to go. Try to go to a church or something. (Not that I am trying to push religion on you, Trust me, I am the least religious person you can ever find on the planet.) But a church is peaceful and quiet, and gives you a certain perspective on what you are going through. But please find some kind of help.
I suggest you give someone your location and phone number via email. Don't post it here.
Email the police department. I am not sure if I believe you since you are on the computer (surely your father would have been smart enough to take away thisform of communication with the outside world?). But if this is true, email the police department.Keep emailing multiple people for help, if necessary, until someone responds.
if you consider comitting suicide, you will surely regret it. Your life shouldn't end because of your father. You should call one of these hot-lines if you get a chance to use the phone. If you can't reach a phone, you should go to one of your neighbors and tell them what's happening.
http://suicidehotlines.com/
http://www.psycom.net/depression.central...
http://www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org...
http://www.hopeline.com/
http://www.girlsandboystown.org/hotline/...
http://www.athealth.com/consumer/issues/...
I really hope I could have helped you in your time of pain. Use one of these site #'s or if you can't reach a phone, then use the site's to comfort you. I wish you the best of luck.
You cannot give up. You can do it continue your life. You are upset with your father but you shouldn't be upset with that. You shouldn't be upset though you are upset. Find something like jokes, songs and anything joyful. You shouldn't be upset. Organize your life.
y is ur father so mad? and no suicide is not the answer. try going to a friend's house and tell ur dad u guys are going to the mall or something. and then call 911. if ur old enough to drive, drive to some place ur dad doesnt really know and call the police there. im REALLY sorry about ur mother and ur father is probably pretty messed up cause of ur brother and ur mother. but try to talk to him calmly about what he's so upset about when he's not in his bad mood. usually, talking it out calmly can be the best answer
You need to get out of there fast. I'll pray for you.
you're in a very tough situation. I was going to say you could email someone, but I guess that won't work. I think your best option would be to go out of your room to where your dad is so you guys can talk. Just make sure it's an open room where you can run if you need to. Once you're finished talking, take a walk somewhere to a friends house or a local church or something and see if you can use the phone and get some help. Regardless of if your dad has calmed down or not, something needs to be done about him. That is physical abuse.
Any updates? I just got to reading this. What's going on with your father now?
If anything, try to run to the nearest phone and dial 911.
I'll be checking up on this.
My email:
anxious_insomniac@yahoo.com
Edit: Okay, Good he's calmer. Has he done this before, and by that I mean saying that he wants you to come out so you two can talk? And if so, what usually happens?
Is there anyways you can escape to a neighbors house while he is asleep? Or call somone while he is asleep?
Please email me if you can.
Sending good vibes and good luck your way.
Focus instead on getting out of this alive. Can you email someone? Also if you have bruises, that might help you with your side of the story. I think you need to stay at a relative's house or a friends; it's obviously dangerous in your own place and I know you don't like living with that kind of fear everyday. Try looking in the yellow pages for someone in your area that could help-a social worker or anyone to help you out and get you away from this situation.
Not suicide. You're obviously stronger than that, and I applaud you for having that strength.
What you need to do is let things cool down now, and the very next chance you get discreetly call social services or 911
Your father is abusive, and you need to get away from him.
Try not to stir anything up until you get the chance to call someone. When you do, call them right away and make sure you get out of there.
find a way to sneak out the window try making a rope with sheets and blankets
climb out
go to the neighbors
call the cops and say what he did
if not try getting attention to people by hannging out the window yelling help
Suicide is the worst possible alternative. It's your father's fault for drinking, but it's the alchohol's fault he acts that way. It was a smart move, in my opinion, destroying his beer supply. I have a friend whose father used to be that way. He got particularlly nasty when I was staying at my buddy's house once. He was afraid to do anything so I went and dumped all the beer down the drain, then called my mom when his dad was asleep and we hightailed it.
Just pray for yourself, and for your father. Try to get help soon. Call a friend when you can and say you're going out, then go to the authorities. Or, you could talk to your father, which may give him a more secure peace of mind. If he turns violent get the HELL out of there.
Praying for you.
Suicide is never a solution, will only worsen. Always remember that there are other people who got bigger problem than yours. Call on God. pray. God loves you very much. Life is beautiful, nobody has the right to hurt you.
Ray-Ray, can you im me and let me know your address or some identifying information about where you live...maybe I can call police and get them to come investigate "child-abuse" against your dad and get you out of that situation..sweetie, no matter how bad it seems, suicide is NEVER the right answer.im or email me and I will see if I can help you.
here is an idea call 911 on the computer
I don't know if you are religious or not but several cultures say that if you commit suicide you go to hell. sorry I want to scare you out of thinking that way suicide is not the answer
there has to be some way you could contact someone.
There is not a single good reason to kill yourself PLEASE dont. hide out until he goes to work or something. I will pray for you.PEOPLE DO LOVE YOU.
hi wow scary stuff, wat ever you do dont give up there is help !
is yr father always violent? if yes you need to get out of there !
only yr father can control his anger if he cant he needs help fast, you can talk to me when ever you need sum one im on yahoo steven_vrg ill help if i can but if your father wants to talk ask him if you can talk from in yr room because he scared you and thats why you did that 2 his beer tell him you love him but he needs to never show you his temper as your very scared of him when he does, tell him you cant feel relaxed at home if his going to be ticking time bomb his ment to be your protector not the enemy you want to be close to him but you cant when he scares u like that are you badly hurt darl do u need a doctor? i hate to hear when someone is bad to another and defently when its a guy hitting a women or young girl there is never ever any reason 4 it yr old man is wrong to hit you like that you should never have to get that punishment never ever ever even if your really naughty there are other ways to punish you rather then violence please if he ever gets that way again goto the cops he needs help and you probably need counciling too as thats very scary 4 u to live with on your own
Mm, stay away from ur dad for some time. keep up ur pace with ur works or studies.
keep mum while ur dad shouts at U and be away while he tries to hur u physically.
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