Can anyone help me get over my phobia, (fear) of death?
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Do you have faith in Jesus Christ? I ask that because you know what HE promises you. In your faith in Jesus, talk to our Heavenly Father, tell Him your fears. He already knows, but desires us to call upon Him. He will lead and guide you through the Holy Spirit to just trust everything to Him. Everything, including and especially your life after death.
Nope, but now I welcome it.
Hey why worry, just live your life as best you can and let death worry on its own.
just think that you're going to go to heaven when u die, and that there are more better things in life than thinking about life being over. have lots and lots of fun in life!
I suggest religion. I'm a methodist. Honestly, if death isn't the end, what's there to fear in a new part of life?
It depends on your relationship with God, if you believe and know there is a better life ahead of you, you will not fear death anymore. So crack open your bible, and pray first and ask God to lead you, and relieve you of your fear of death.
We're all gonna die but don't dwell on it. Live life to the fullest while you still have it. Nothing you can do about it dear.
I get anxiety over death at times myself.
God wer could i start, i could write lots trying to convince you that heaven is real, and that you dont feel pain when it happens and tell you about the white light that allows your family who have already past to collect you, i could tell you about my beliefs that you dont just stop! you go to another world and look over your family and friends,
but i dont think that you would really believe me i mean if it was that easy to convince you, you wouldnt have a problem. the best advice i could give you is to watch psychic medium pogrammes on tv and see for yourself that death shouldnt be feared!
Colin Fry...living tv!, Jonathan Edwards...living tv! or look them up on the web!, they explain thing a lot better than i could!! after watching what they had to say for a while and watching them work, i realised that there is no need to fear death
hope i helped, and hope you feel better soon xXxXx
First of all I have to agree with abby,, this is truly the way it is , I know I have died twice and the doctors brought me back,, I was just a fearful as you were, but what you are fearing is not the fear of death, its the fear of how your going to die. God, say's never fear death for I am with you always. Not only is the presents of God with you but your loved ones are all around you ,, the only way I can explain Death to you is this way. Have you ever just passed out? Then got up and looked around and said how did I get down here? any thing like that at all? Well that's just how it is,, or better yet, have you ever had to go in for any kind of operation where they put you out while there telling you as they give you a shot. Ok now this isnt going to hurt its just going to put you to sleep for awhile, or its just going to relax you for a while and when you get up you won"t feel a thing~~ Well, its just like that~ but only better~ what your fearing is fear it self! I don't blame you either, we live in a life of fear, its all around us, this is part of our human makeup. But, when we start to feel it take over us like fear of darkness, monsters, devils, fire, being around dead bodies that are ugly to even be near, or their grabbing at you , eating you, big hawks with wings and fangs, I can clearly assure you that these are our own nightmere's that each of us in our life times have felt just like you,,remember your not alone on these issues. But, I promise you they are truly just our worst imaginations. They do not exist! they do not! When you die, or, as it really is Pass over from the physical world to the spirit world, or astral plan. The transition from from the physical realm to the spirit is not an ending: it is a transformation to another state of consciousness. Rather then limiting ourselves to thinking on a material physical level, we expand to fill an emotional, spiritual realm without bounds. Once we are freed from the physical body and are no longer consumed with the needs of the physical world, we can soar to heights of learning. When our time is up here on earth, as we all have to say good-bye one day~~It is truly a bliss, its what you have made of yourself while you live on earth what is taken in to consideration when you reach the other side,, it doesnt matter if your the richest, the poorest, the president of the United State's The most beautiful of people. What matters is the quality of your life on earth. We all have to prepare for our journey by living on the earth with dignity, integrity, service, love , and a sense of humor~! Look, let me ask you this? do you remember when you were born? Well, its the same exact feeling when you pass on~~ You, won't remember how you passed,,it is not even going to be an issue. I promise you in God's name I promise you~~ let me explain something that happened to me in my life,, I lost my mother back in 1999, mother, had just gone through the most horrible ordeal when she had to have a bypass to her heart,,the doctors opened my mother up and realized they couldn't do the procedure they wanted to do on my mother as mothers valves were way to small and this was a very risky operation. Any way, they had to leave my mothers chest open for 6 days before they could go back in and see if they could try it again ,, now this was suppose to be only a 4 hour procedure, well all in all it took them 14 hours to do, and they still couldn't do what they wanted. So , they just cleaned her valves up and closed her up. The doctors told us they didnt think my mother would make it through so we as a family should really think about letting her go~! like a DNR. in other words if mothers heart should stop not to revive our mother, so the whole family came out her brothers and sisters,, and my cousins,, Now all this time my mother is not breathing on her own, mothers been on life support the moment she went in for the procedure up until the end,,, anyway , what happen was my Uncle mother's oldest brother, whom mother was very close to, came to me as he is a doctor too, but said to me April, your going to really have to think about taking your mother off life support, she's just not going to make it ! Oh how that made me so upset to hear that so I told him how can you say that, let God, decide not you!! I mean there were so many emotions going through me you cant even imagine, becasue I couldnt imagine living life with out my mother, I got him so upset he got on a plan a flew back! Well after 6 weeks on life support, with a tube down mothers throat , not being able to speak to us,, just knodding at us winking and trying to write words of how much she loved us and couldnt wait to get home,, it was on sept 23rd 1999, and my mother was off life support finally oh how happy we were we had our mother back,,, I was so glad I didnt listen to my uncle,,I just thanked God, a million times over,, the doctor's came in and said that mother was their miricle patient, Now this was on Sept, 23,1999, ok~ The doctor's had moved our mother out of ICU and put her on the second ICU floor, where she was just to be on close watch, all mother had to do was just go through 2 weeks of therapy where she was to learn how to speak again due to the tube in her throat along with the trachrea, then we could have her home with us in two weeks,, OH!! what a Joy~~ my mother along with all of us kids were so happy that day,, she was already looking better than ever,, dressed in her purple jams that our father had gotten her,, she blew the doctors a big kiss,, and wrote me a note saying when I get home ,you and I are going to New Mexico together~~ oh that smile,, I will never forget~~ well, after hearing the great news that mothers coming home in 2 weeks,, we just had to get home to tell dad the good news,,upon our arrival into the house my father said April,..there's one of the doctors from the hospital that wants you to call him asap~~ I said ok let me call him dad, then I want to give you the good news,, Great he said,,so I went to the phone called the doctor, and the worst news I could hear I was just given~ SHOCK! HE TOLD ME THAT YOUR MOTHER WAS RINGING HER BELL FOR HELP AND YOUR MOTHERS NURSE DIDNT GET TO YOUR MOTHER ON TIME ,,HE WAS CALLED BY THE NURSE AS MY MOTHER JUST WENT INTO A CODE BLUE!! WHEN HE GOT TO MOTHER SHE WAS COLD TO TOUCH PURPLE, AND NO HEART BEAT,, SO HE DID COMPRESSIONS ON MY MOTHER GOT HER BACK TO LIFE,, NEVER TO BE THE SAME AGAIN,, SO, MY FATHER, AFTER GIVING HIM THE BAD NEWS NOT GOOD NEWS ANYMORE,, SAID GET YOUR MOTHER OUT OF THAT HOSPTIAL NOW!!
Well, we got our attorney and he got her home closer to us in another facility, where she died 5 weeks later,, but the night before she died,, as she was in a semi coma, I just got in the bed with her with all these tubes again hooked up to her on life support,, and I just held her and cried, , I was telling her I didnt believe in God any more,, how could he let this happen to us,, I blamed and blamed for I know a good hour or more,,just in tears,, then all of a sudden my mother managed to turn her head over to me and she opened her eyes and smiled and she uttered there is a God!! I need my shoes and my credit cards as I am going to go home to be with God, and my family now~~ oh my sweet April.. their is a God,dont ever doubt it for a moment,, she died 6 hours later,, with a smile on her face,, I stayed with her as long as I could ,, even the nurses were amazed,, my mother, whom was in a semi coma,, couldnt speak ,, and had lost most of her brainwaves,, still managed to utter the words there is a God, and she was in peace and happy as she was going home to be with God and her family,, now this is a fact, , and if you ever need the proof the nurses at this facility still until this day talk about that miricle,, So , I ponder for a very long time why did my mother have to suffer for so long than come finally out of the woods to only be back in a life of no return,,,why put my mother who was such a spiritual, women through this hell!!? Then, mother came to me in a dream,, and she said to me ,,never give up on your faith,, I will be here waiting for you ~~ its so beautiful, all of my family and freinds our here and you have more to do there~` I woke up and felt this wind soft soft wind in my hear,, and I knew that was my mother,, blowing me a kiss,, as she did the doctors,, and she loved her birds,, and the birds were singing ,, sounds I had never heard before ,, just like angels singing to me~`and yes I have had many other dreams of my mother, they all have been with her looking younger as I remember her looking her best,, as well as playing her piano, and singing to all these other masses of people ,, some I did remember that have also pass on,, but what I saw in my dreams,, of heaven and where my mother was,, I knew I had nothing to fear,nothing,,and the best part of three of these dreams,, there I was along side with other people curled up in Jesus's arms~~ so never fear~ never , and just remember,, theres a time to die and a time live,,everone has to except this its apart of life~~ God, never lets us go ,, so never let God go,, and now you can sleep,, and as you get older,, you will understand what I mean,, as in the bible,, if you read Poverbs,, the older you get the wiser we become, and there is nothing to fear,, you have to believe this in your heart,, so if your alone at night, just remember this that God, and his Saints and his special Angels will never leave you alone nor ever forsake you~~ God Speed,, tomorrow's another day,,,and you won't feel this way ok? sweet dreams,, ~~
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