Heroin... help! lacking an inspiration , my boyfriend needs help and I feel helpless , I can't do anything.
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You are allowing his habit to control your life. He is living a risky lifestyle whether he's shooting, snorting or smoking. Addicts will do anything to get a fix including having unprotected sex and sharing needles. Give him one opportunity to make a decision to get clean. If he says ok, help him find resources: NA meetings, talk to his family, ect. But if he doesn't want to, then say goodbye. it isn't worth the risk for your well being, I promise.
You are not in love. You are an enabler. Lose the zero and find a hero!!
If your boyfriend is on heroin, I would imediatelly take him to drug rehab. Then tell him that if he does not quit you will leave him. You do not want to be in a relationship plagued by drug abuse. If you need any help or advice, feel free to email or IM me.
Pray for him with a sincere heart, and never stop letting him know that you love him. Only don't let your love convince you to get involved with it as well.
OK if you truly love him you need to go get him an a detox program ASAP usually the emergency room can give you a list in your area or even set it up for you.
It's hard when you love someone who has an addiction. You can tell them what they should do,but until they admit they have a problem and seek help for themselves you have to give then "tough" love and let them go!! I know from experience because my son had some isssues and I got him all the help I could, but he didn't think he had any problems...so the solutions that were given to him didn't work, but I couldn't have his disruptive behavior with my other children. He finally admitted he had problems and now he just got married. So there's hope for everyone.
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